re: ITS SOOOO HARD...

I have captian crunch....But no milk  

Quoting Gabes Mommy  :“ I have captian crunch....But no milk  ”

I got milk but no captain crunch.. I'll via send you some and you send me!

CAP-A-HOE oh...and maybe if you wouldn't yell he'd want to be around

i think u should wait i mean as long as he doesnt move on.

Quoting BRiTT@NY:“ i think u should wait i mean as long as he doesnt move on.”

If he doesnt want to have anything to do with her now while shes pregnant with his child what makes you think he's going to change his mind and want something to do with her after her babys born?

Quoting Gabes Mommy  :“ If he doesnt want to have anything to do with her now while shes pregnant with his child what makes you think he's going to change his mind and want something to do with her after her babys born?”

exactly what I thought.  

Quoting Mavick:“ exactly what I thought.  ”

And whos to say he didnt leave her because he already moved on.?

b/c somethin lik that happened to me. my baby's dad an i didn't talk throughout most of my pregnancy & treated me lik shit tho then toward the end he came around and even tho were not together we spend time together & with the baby

i said if he didnt move on

Quoting BRiTT@NY:“ b/c somethin lik that happened to me. my baby's dad an i didn't talk throughout most of my pregnancy ... [snip!] ... me lik shit tho then toward the end he came around and even tho were not together we spend time together & with the baby”

But she's not you, alot of guys arent ready to take on the responsibility of a child so there for they leave and only come back to see the child when it's convenient (sp?) for them. But why should she have to wait on him to make up his mind on if he wants to be with her or not. She needs to be thinking about her baby and not some guy. Her child should be her top priority, not if the dad wants to be in their life or not.

Quoting BRiTT@NY:“ i said if he didnt move on”

Why would he not want to talk to her until the babys born then? Wouldnt he want to be at the appointments and the u/s's that she gets? If he didnt move on then he'd actually want to be involved with the babys life.

Quoting BRiTT@NY:“ b/c somethin lik that happened to me. my baby's dad an i didn't talk throughout most of my pregnancy ... [snip!] ... me lik shit tho then toward the end he came around and even tho were not together we spend time together & with the baby”

me and my guy had it bad too.

he didnt wanna be with me after the "conceving" sex.. cuz he wasn't ready to get back and all.. but he was willing to get back SLOWLY.... and he went to doc appointments and ultrasounds.. yada yada.. paid for things.. etc.

little did I know he was already talking to someone else and barely just started going out with her and told me all that so I wouldn't get hurt. I found out the hard way.. after telling him I was pregnant he told me the truth. And for a month we didn't want anything to do with each other.

In the end things ended good and we're together again, but just cuz that happened to me doesn't mean it'll happen to her. Just like if you have a happy ending doesn't mean she will.

Chances are, she won't, which is the truth but not what we hope for. But if she doesn't get a happy ending with him, it'll be worse if she held on to that hope.

Quoting Gabes Mommy  :“ But she's not you, alot of guys arent ready to take on the responsibility of a child so there for they ... [snip!] ... about her baby and not some guy. Her child should be her top priority, not if the dad wants to be in their life or not.”

why the heck wouldn't u want the father of ur kid to be around?? or wanna do anything u can for ur child to have his/her father. it's stupid for somebody to just want to do it alone if he can be there why wouldn't u want him around even if it's not til after the baby is born.

Quoting Mavick:“ me and my guy had it bad too. he didnt wanna be with me after the "conceving" sex.. cuz he wasn't ready ... [snip!] ... the truth but not what we hope for. But if she doesn't get a happy ending with him, it'll be worse if she held on to that hope.”

that's true but she shouldn't try and have a boyfriend while she is pregnant that isn't her baby's father. it may not seem lik i think parents of children should be together cause i'm not with my baby's father (wish it was different but that's on him not me) but kid's need both of their parents around not one jus payin for expenses an shit

.......right