am i disrespecting my baby???

does anyone thing it is disrespecting there baby if they carry there blanket around...... i dont know y but i just cant put my babys blanket down, it goes everywhere with me. i fell it is the only thing that i had of my baby that was his. i got told the other week that alot of people have said to y partner that i disrespecting him by doing it. i just want to know if anyone thinks the same???

its your way of grieving. Carry it all you want!!

i dont get it.

i dont see that being disrespectful at all

I dont understand how that can be considered disrespectful? Whatever makes yuo feel better you should do.

Quoting cherie86:“ does anyone thing it is disrespecting there baby if they carry there blanket around...... i dont know ... [snip!] ... alot of people have said to y partner that i disrespecting him by doing it. i just want to know if anyone thinks the same???”

I don't see anything wrong with it. That would be like if people told me not to waer my locket that has Jenessa's ashes in it (well some of her ashes). Do whatever makes you feel right. Don't let what others think get to you!

It's not disrespectful! You're his mother...if you find comfort it carrying it, go for it! And I'm sorry for your loss *hugs*

it would seem a little weird if someone was taking a baby blanket with then where ever they went. But I don't think it is disrespecting the baby

Quoting MillerMommy86:“ i dont get it.”

i got given a blanket from the hospital when i lost my son that we had him wraped up in whilst we where there.

If I were you I would care too much about what other people think about you carrying around your baby's blanket. SCREW 'EM!! You know why you carry it with you and it's not something you should have todefend or explain!!

Quoting cherie86:“ does anyone thing it is disrespecting there baby if they carry there blanket around...... i dont know ... [snip!] ... alot of people have said to y partner that i disrespecting him by doing it. i just want to know if anyone thinks the same???”

of course not! do whatever you need to do sweetie...and screw the rest <3

Quoting cherie86:“ does anyone thing it is disrespecting there baby if they carry there blanket around...... i dont know ... [snip!] ... alot of people have said to y partner that i disrespecting him by doing it. i just want to know if anyone thinks the same???”

why would you be disrespectinghim to carry around his blanket? You want something to comfort you too, and theres nothing disrespectful about that at all. Whatever gives you comfort in this time of grieving is the way you need to grieve, no one can tell you the right way for you to grieve, you do it the way you need to, and if his blanket helps you than theres nothing wrong with that, don't listen to people telling you how to grieve and heal, its all about you and your baby, don't let anyone tell you what to do or how to feel.

You do whatever it is that brings you some comfort honey and dont let anyone tell you and different.
Sending Love

Not at all. I have carried my grandmothers handkerchief in my purse for 10 yrs. and I carried it when I got married.
when I had my baby 3 weeks ago, I held a pic of my mom and wore her ring.

I don't think there is anything wrong or disrespectful about it.

and I mean if they didn't know the situation.