re: am i disrespecting my baby???

Quoting BabyMarshall:“ I think it's sweet. Maybe you could snip a little piece off and put it in a locket or something, so even when you can't hold the blanket it's still with you”

someone sugested that but it is knitted so it will fray if i cut it

it's not disrespectful honey.
You do whatever helps you, and others should respect that.

Sending you hugs.
Kay.

Quoting kaykat:“ it's not disrespectful honey. You do whatever helps you, and others should respect that. Sending you hugs. Kay.”

i dont mean to sound mean but u have alot of angel babys..... how do u feel after going through so many n falling pregnant again???
im sorry we are just trying for another baby n im so scared bout it

Terrified to be honest, and I will be sick to my stomach with fear everyday, until I'm holding this baby in my arms.
But my DH and I really want one more little one so here I am.
This is my last try though - I had two early losses this year and if this one doesn't make it I'm finished.
What makes it easier is that I have had my losses spread out over 15 years and have had my LC inbetween, so I know that sometimes I can carry a little one, I think it works out at about a 50/50 chance.

no it is not disrespectful at all. I still to this day carry my isaiah blanket around not as much i use to. It has been 10 months since he had passed away too.

I think that if it comforts you then carry it. don't let anyone tell you any different!

Quoting Jayden&Chance'sMama:“ Oh, I Understand. I Wouldn't Be Able To either. I Keep My Little Guys Passy In My car, and I Still Have ... [snip!] ... In My car, and I Still Have a Diaper In My Purse. And I Haven't Washed Anything That He Wore Beofre He Died. I Just Refuse To.”

I am the same way i refused to wash anything he wore prior to his death...but last tuesday i came home and my husband had gone into our sons room and washed EVERYTHING... i was so upset and searching for the outfit and blanket i keep under my pillow everynight and couldnt find them. i started getting really upset because i didnt want to loose the smell or his hair thatwas on them, i finally found them in his bassinet next to the bed thank god. I am told im crazy and need to move on but its been a little over two months an i can not let him go. i cry all the time for him and somenights wish i hadnt lived this long, but i know i need to be here for my son whos four and our little one on the way.

Your Not Crazy! You Lost A Baby.. you Don't Need To Just Forget. That Was YOURS. and Now It's Gone. So All We Can Do Is Remeber.

I dont think it is disrespectful. To tell you the truth. The entire time my son was in the hospital and after he died. I slept with his blanket. Just to smell him. That sounds a lil creepy. But I just needed something to hold. Dont listen to people who say that your being disrespectful. I did it too. And so did my fiance. Im so sorry for you lose.

After atreyu died I didnt go anywhere without his blanket I took it to the bathroom with me. This happened for a long time. After I got a tattoo of his hand I felt like I had him always on my skin, so I was able to let go of the blanket a little bit.

I took lynnea's blanket everywhere with me.. After awhile, I stopped taking it with me.. but I always sleep with it every night.

It's not disrespecting at all.. it's a way to grieve..

thanks u all so much 4 ur replies,, bugger every1 else that just dont care... none of my friends have been through this so thay dont know what im going through.... ill do with it what i want im not going to listen to there school yard bull shit anymore