Quoting Pregapotumus:“ So Greg (my BD) and I decited not to get married just yet, we dont wanna rush into anything just because ... [snip!] ... sake. I want the day he asks me to marry him to be special,I dont want him to do it because he "has" to what do you think?”
AGREED AGREED AGREED!!!!
Me and my husband were engaged ... and during that time we had become pregnant, but our wedding plans were for sometime after the baby due date ... planned prior to becoming pregnant. Well everyone talked me into moving the wedding up! So I did and a one month before our wedding I miscarried ...
I do love my husband, but I really really wish I would have waited. Waited for my "dream" wedding ... don't get me wrong I loved my wedding but it wasnt he one I always imagined.
I see NOTHING wrong with waiting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really wish I had. Everyones life is dif though ... but really, do what you think is best!!!!!