re: WHY?!?!?!?!?! vent

Quoting Pregalicious [MAEK]:“ sometimes he is just soooo stupid... it doesn't compute into his head!!! we were in bed talking ... [snip!] ... what are you gonna do for my birthday? HIS BIRTHDAY IS IN JANUARY!!! AAARHRHRHRH.... im gonna kill him in his sleep... ”

Boys are dumb.  

kick that boy's ASS, man!! you are preggo with his child, he should take you out to a nice dinner whenever you damn well please (unless you ask him all the time)! not just because it's your 'birthday.' and since it IS your birthday, he better do something special!

Quoting LexZeppelin89:“ kick that boy's ASS, man!! you are preggo with his child, he should take you out to a nice dinner whenever ... [snip!] ... ask him all the time)! not just because it's your 'birthday.' and since it IS your birthday, he better do something special!”

haha i know... and nooo i neeever ask to go out...EVER so i think I deserve it! haha

do you give your fiance alone time? If not you should give him some..he sounds like hes bored with the relationship,with that i dont mean you..but he's acting pretty lame.

Quoting Sara12345:“ do you give your fiance alone time? If not you should give him some..he sounds like hes bored with the relationship,with that i dont mean you..but he's acting pretty lame.”

LOL yea im sure he is not bored with the relationship at all... he gets plenty of "alone time" he does whatever he wants whenever he wants and If I don't like it then that is just too bad for me.

His family isn't really big on birthdays or holidays. I know he just doesn't understand why its such a big deal to me to want to go out on my birthday... he just thinks it is another day...

although I do think he is being pretty selfish and yea he is being lame.

I think im just gonna give him the benefit of the doubt and say he just... doesn't know any better haha...

Quoting Ashley [MAEK]:“ LOL yea im sure he is not bored with the relationship at all... he gets plenty of "alone time" he ... [snip!] ... he is being lame. I think im just gonna give him the benefit of the doubt and say he just... doesn't know any better haha...”

makes sense,but i mean if its important to you you have to stress that if they arnt important in his family it is in yours..and tell him to be a boyfriend and be there once and a while..he might be alittle depressed(kinda sounds like it) hopefully he snaps out of it.

Quoting Sara12345:“ makes sense,but i mean if its important to you you have to stress that if they arnt important in his ... [snip!] ... be a boyfriend and be there once and a while..he might be alittle depressed(kinda sounds like it) hopefully he snaps out of it.”

yea i have said a couple things to him about it already... so i don't really want to nag him about it lol... its nothing new tho he did it on my last birthday too...
which was my first bithday with us together...

He is great guy and all waits on me hand and foot and he is so excited about these babies.... I know he loves me... but it just kind of hurt my hormonal self that he is doing this for the second year in a row... I'll get over it tho haha