Annoyed....

So my guy has this friend who is a girl and he always refers to her as his sister, which is fine because I have lots of guy friends, most of which are just acquaintences though. Well it used to be kind of an issue cause when we were having problems instead of coming to me when he was mad, he would run to her to talk about it, which i didn't like. I feel if were having problems i need to be the first to know how he feels.
So earlier he said hey im going over to her house today to hang out (she just had a baby) and wanted to know if i wanted to go. I said sure I would go he said we wouldn't be over there late or anything. Well he just text me and asked if i just wanted to come over after he went to hang out with her. Because he gets off work at 3:30 and i don't get off work till 5:30. So he wants to go ahead and go hang out with her so he can be home early around 7 ish when i can get off work, go home and change and meet up with him.
I dunno why but it just kinda bugged me, I mean why did he even ask me to go then? Im not a jealous person but it just really kinda buggs me. Would anyone else be upset or am i over thinking?

I would be upset but i'm a jealous person.Sry if i didnt help

well it was only conflict before because he always thought because i had guy friends that they all wanted to sleep with me. But he doesn't want to sleep with his best friend thats a girl....so that always kinda made me mad. I have met this girl a few times, hung out once or twice and talked through e-mail. I know nothing is going to happen it just kinda bummed me out that he asked if he could hang out with me tonight then saying well just come with me over there, then going to well im just gonna go and you can come over when i get back cause i don't wanna wait till 7 to go over there.

maybe i should be a bit more jealous? he is with me, its just never really been my thing to get mad about.

guy are not patince so maybe he just didnt want to wait or maybe he though you wouldnt have wanted to go?

well he said she doesn't stay up late because she has a new baby which is understandable, baby sleeps early and your supposed to sleep when baby does. But he asked me and i said yea i wanted to go. I dunno why it just kinda bothered me that he just decided to go on his own. Hormones. BLAH!

I find it kind weird that he confides to another girl. Ya she his friend whatever. But you are his leading lady and if he is having issues with work or with you  then he should be talking to you about it. I would see no harm in him talking to one of his buddies or his dad. But this girl friend thing just send red flags in my mind. I don't mean to set you over board. But i think the best thing to do is sit your honey down and tell him how you feel about it and that it truly bothers you. If I have a problem with my guy I say "adam when you do that it makes me feel this " it totally helps and keeps us from bottling things up and then losing our cool. Im sure this girl is cool but she should know better. He should be spending his time waiting for you to get off work not hanging out with some other girl. Hope this helps. 

how long have you guys been dating? Also its his best girl friend and she just had a baby..its a big deal..he is not hiding the fact that he is going over there so he's not hiding anything. Do not be a bit more jelous, there will be alot of resentment from him if you try and pull them apart..how do you know he confides everything to her? Does he say oh i mentioned it to so and so and she thinks..or does she let you know whats going on with him?

*ps she just had a baby and you are pregnant,i bet he's asking alot of advice from her-when i was pregnant my fiance would always talk to his girlfriends that had children for advice,if i was being hormonal-they really helped him understand things he wouldnt have had he not talked to them.

We have been together for a little over a year, he used to work with this girl so he has known her for probably about 3 years. Yes he does tell me that he tells her things and what they talk about most of the time. I have addressed the issue before one night when we rode together to a party and he was upset with me because it was a party with all my friends and he thought all the guys there wanted to sleep with me! So he wanted to leave me to go talk to her because he was upset. Needless to say that started a big fight. I do think everyone needs to have that ONE person they can completely confide in besides their SO. But there is alot of stuff he doesn't tell her, like when hes being an ass to me or something.