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posted 16th Jul
I am 16 weeks pregnant. I'm married, yet separated. My husband and I do NOT get along therefore we decided to live in separate households. Even though I have family and friends around to support me through this difficult time, I still feel completely alone. I feel like I lost a very important part of me and it's very hard to deal with....especially during pregnancy. I'm literally stressing myself out while he goes on about his business like nothing is going on. Does anyone ever feel like I feel? 
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I'm due December 27th (a girl) & live in Virginia
posted 16th Jul
I found out a week after my first husband and I separated that I was pregnant...and to answer your question, I had never felt so alone in my life. I had my family and friends, but it isn't quite the same...Not to mention the hormones. And men suck. 2 weeks after we separated, (ONE week after I found out I was pregnant) my husband and little sister got engaged. I was devastated......The best advice I can give is to focus on that sweet little angel growing inside of you!
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I have 2 kids & live in Idaho
posted 16th Jul
Quoting ♥ ThEiR mOmMy &hea:“ I found out a week after my first husband and I separated that I was pregnant...and to answer your question, ... [snip!] ... got engaged. I was devastated......The best advice I can give is to focus on that sweet little angel growing inside of you!”
Your husband and your little sister? WTF? That's pretty bad.
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I have 1 child & live in Iowa
posted 16th Jul
Quoting ♥ ThEiR mOmMy &hea:“ I found out a week after my first husband and I separated that I was pregnant...and to answer your question, ... [snip!] ... got engaged. I was devastated......The best advice I can give is to focus on that sweet little angel growing inside of you!”

   
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I have 2 kids & live in California
posted 16th Jul
Quoting ♥ ThEiR mOmMy &hea:“ I found out a week after my first husband and I separated that I was pregnant...and to answer your question, ... [snip!] ... got engaged. I was devastated......The best advice I can give is to focus on that sweet little angel growing inside of you!”

I'm so sorry that happened to you....what I'm going through seems like nothing compared to that....
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I'm due December 27th (a girl) & live in Virginia
posted 16th Jul
Quoting ♥ ThEiR mOmMy &hea:“ I found out a week after my first husband and I separated that I was pregnant...and to answer your question, ... [snip!] ... got engaged. I was devastated......The best advice I can give is to focus on that sweet little angel growing inside of you!”

Holy crap!!! that would be a war in my fam! yikes ... i would be insanely pissed!!!!
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I have 2 kids & live in Georgia
posted 16th Jul
Quoting ♥ ThEiR mOmMy &hea:“ I found out a week after my first husband and I separated that I was pregnant...and to answer your question, ... [snip!] ... got engaged. I was devastated......The best advice I can give is to focus on that sweet little angel growing inside of you!”


I know you feel alone but if you arent getting along its probably best. Im not going to set here and say I have been there because I havent But just stay focused on your little one.





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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Florida
posted 16th Jul
Quoting ♥ ThEiR mOmMy &hea:“ I found out a week after my first husband and I separated that I was pregnant...and to answer your question, ... [snip!] ... got engaged. I was devastated......The best advice I can give is to focus on that sweet little angel growing inside of you!”

r u kidding me I think i would kill my sister and then dis own her..that is seriosuly messed up.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Florida
posted 16th Jul
Quoting lala_leo21:“ I am 16 weeks pregnant. I'm married, yet separated. My husband and I do NOT get along therefore we decided ... [snip!] ... stressing myself out while he goes on about his business like nothing is going on. Does anyone ever feel like I feel? 

i know how u feel , me n my babys dad dont get along either we broke up when i was 8 weeks and havent seen him since i was 10 weeks preg.. im trying to think postive but its hard to know that ur babys dad is out doing what he wants!
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I have 1 child & live in New Jersey
posted 16th Jul
YQuoting lala_leo21:“ I'm so sorry that happened to you....what I'm going through seems like nothing compared to that....”




I look at it like this, if I hadn't married that ass, I wouldn't have my daughter...If he hadn't done what he did, I wouldn't have my son....
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I have 2 kids & live in Idaho
posted 16th Jul
Quoting Expecting a lil boy!!:“ r u kidding me I think i would kill my sister and then dis own her..that is seriosuly messed up.”


here is the best part...They decided they wanted a baby right away...They showed up at the birth of my daughter..TOGETHER, and got pissed off cause I wouldn't let him in the delivery room!!!
They didn't get married, it all ended 6 months after my girl was born...He is now married to his 3rd wife...
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I have 2 kids & live in Idaho
posted 16th Jul
Quoting ♥ ThEiR mOmMy &hea:“ I look at it like this, if I hadn't married that ass, I wouldn't have my daughter...If he hadn't done what he did, I wouldn't have my son....”

that is understandable but what about your sister..she is family and that is a Big NO NO in my book.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Florida
posted 16th Jul
Quoting ♥ ThEiR mOmMy &hea:“ here is the best part...They decided they wanted a baby right away...They showed up at the birth of ... [snip!] ... delivery room!!! They didn't get married, it all ended 6 months after my girl was born...He is now married to his 3rd wife...”

holy crap.. i still think I would be bitter to my sister after all this...I mean obviously you have moved on and you are probably happy but that dick..LOL sorry was once your husband.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Florida
posted 16th Jul
Quoting Expecting a lil boy!!:“ that is understandable but what about your sister..she is family and that is a Big NO NO in my book.”


Uhmmm...Yea...we don't have what you would consider the best relationship....LOL!!! We only talk if we have to! If we are at a family get together thing....And once she showed up at my moms when I was there with a guy I was dating, and didn't introduce them..She called me later to tell me that she couldn't believe I didn't introduce her to him...I said, "Well....look what happened the last time I introduced you to someone!" and hung up...
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I have 2 kids & live in Idaho
posted 16th Jul
Quoting Expecting a lil boy!!:“ holy crap.. i still think I would be bitter to my sister after all this...I mean obviously you have moved on and you are probably happy but that dick..LOL sorry was once your husband.”

Do NOT appologize!! It is ok....It has been a few years....And he is a dumbass...hardly has anything to do with my girl..
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I have 2 kids & live in Idaho
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