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only time will heal your scars, my mom lost 2 kids and it she hasn't forgot them of course but it's easier for her to talk about them without bursting into tears...everything will be ok...just put it in God's hands

The pain will never go away but one day you'll learn to live with it and be ok.

Im sorry for your loss. Im glad you are finally talking about it though...sometimes it helps.

I really hope so because it isn't getting any easier. I look at my son and think his little brother or sister would be 3 right now and they would share a birthday the same month.

Quoting Mi♥Vida©:“ I really hope so because it isn't getting any easier. I look at my son and think his little brother or sister would be 3 right now and they would share a birthday the same month.”

It's better to think that his older brother or sister is keeping an eye on him.
Maybe visiting him and telling him how to drive you crazy when he's older 

My daughter has only been gone a year. It hurts so bad. My son was 12 months and 11 days older than her. They were the only two kids I could have. I think everyday how much my son would have love his little sister. How they would be playing and he wouldn't be the only child! I find it easier to talk to people you don't know, because you will get the love and support you need. When people know you they know how strong you are...or how strong they would like to think you are. I had a hysterectomy when my daughter was born then 2 months later my daughter died. Everyone thinks I'm this strong person when really inside noone knows how I feel, and how I'm not very strong at all. All I do is cry when noone is around, then when family and friends are around I have to put on this front like nothing gets to me cause everyone tells me I'm acting like a baby if I cry! They haven't went through what I have and noone knows your pain like you. Men don't understand because they don't carry the kids! There the spirm donors! I don't think the pain ever goes away. You just learn how to deal with it day by day! I'm sorry for you loss!

Quoting Haylie's Mommy Tracie:“ It's better to think that his older brother or sister is keeping an eye on him. Maybe visiting him and telling him how to drive you crazy when he's older ”

you got me thinking last night when you said that because sometimes i see him looking around where there is nothing or nobody and he just starts laughing out of nowhere and just stares and stares and as much as i try i can't get his eyes off of whatever he's looking at. I really hope so i never believed in that but i hope that it is possible.

Quoting AmberLouis:“ My daughter has only been gone a year. It hurts so bad. My son was 12 months and 11 days older than her. ... [snip!] ... the spirm donors! I don't think the pain ever goes away. You just learn how to deal with it day by day! I'm sorry for you loss!”

my family doesn't know and i don't think i want them to know. They would say it was probably for the better i had just turned 18 when i got pregnant and to them that would have been to young. i don't want to hear their stupid comments about anything either. It's funny how you say that because everyone in my family thinks i'm very strong because i have been through alot yet i don't act different or hurt... when i reality i mean nothing in lifehurts more than the loss of my child. I have no one around that will understand my pain. The most hurtful thing is that i didn't even have a sonogram or anything... i don't even have a place to go visit him/her and bring flowers or anyhting