Ya'll ain't going to believe this S now!

Well, guess what I find out today? My soon to be ex's little girlfriend..ya know the oneheup and left me to move in with? Guess what? She's pregnant!
According to him, up til last week, they had never had sex. Well, yes they have. Now, here's the kicker. She doesn't know who the father is. She's saying she's 3 months. So, that would've put her getting pregnant around the first part of April. Ex say he can't remember exactly when it happened but, he thinks it was in May because he's 99% sure it happened after our daughter's birthday (her b-day is April 29). So, it may be his or it may be some other guy she was seeing too. So, now after I had kind of come to terms and made a little peace with what has happened over the last 2 weeks, I get this bombshell dropped on me today. Now everything is just flooding back on top of this. Now I've got to wonder for the next 6 months if it's his or not.
I have just been overwrought and distraught. As if things weren't bad enough. I asked him if his satisfaction and that piece of ass was worth losing his family over.
I swear I'm losing my effing mind.

man hes a stupid bitch!

well yeah its kinda of a gay ass sucky situation.. but if he is your EX now.. then why do you have to wonder and worry about it for the next 6 months? why the heck does it matter to you?

wow thats crazy....shes a little slut if u ask me. I can't believe he would give up his FAMILY to be with a worthless piece of shit of a girlfriend. I kinda see that as karma....im sure he doesnt feel so great that the so called girlfriend he has now is pregnant and doesnt kno who the father is. He just looks like a dumb ass. easyer said then done but ( keep strong).....a person once told me a quote that i loved " He lost a diamond while collecting stones"

is he still with her??? even though she doesnt even kno who the father is??

Quoting Jynefir Dyan:“ well yeah its kinda of a gay ass sucky situation.. but if he is your EX now.. then why do you have to wonder and worry about it for the next 6 months? why the heck does it matter to you?”

That my first reaction as well.

what a piece of shit..i hate guys..your ex along with my ex need to learn to keep thier dicks in thier pants and if they got us pregnant how do they think they cant get anyone else pregnant??guys are fuckin stupid..

Quoting Jynefir Dyan:“ well yeah its kinda of a gay ass sucky situation.. but if he is your EX now.. then why do you have to wonder and worry about it for the next 6 months? why the heck does it matter to you?”

He isn't quite the ex yet. Not til I can afford an attorney. Why do I have to worry about it? Because if it is his, then he's going to have 3 kids to pay for and it effing sucks my kids may get less than they deserve because he couldn't keep it in his damn pants. Plus the fact that everything has happened in such a short period of time that I'm having a hard time dealing with it all...much less this. AND having to explain to my daughter that she's got a half brother or half sister.

I could never be with a man who had a kid and was still tied to a relationship with the mother.!! He is just gonna do the same shit he did to you to her!!

Fingers crossed and eyes closed tight I HOPE ITS THE OTHER GUYS KID... and she leaves him.. hehe

They dont have to wait until the baby is born to find out who the father is. They can do a paternity test before the baby is born. I def. wouldnt take him back tho no matter what the results of that test are b/c once a cheater always a cheater.

Quoting TCwifey08:“ They dont have to wait until the baby is born to find out who the father is. They can do a paternity ... [snip!] ... baby is born. I def. wouldnt take him back tho no matter what the results of that test are b/c once a cheater always a cheater.”

Yes, you are right about being able to find out before the baby is born. But, unfortunately, I can't make them do it. That's up to her or him to push for. Oh hell to the naw I'm not taking him back. I hate him and wish I never had to see his face ever again. I'm done with him and there is NO coming back and I've made that abundantly clear.

Quoting rabidmommy:“ Yes, you are right about being able to find out before the baby is born. But, unfortunately, I can't ... [snip!] ... wish I never had to see his face ever again. I'm done with him and there is NO coming back and I've made that abundantly clear.”

Good for you Im proud of you girl and if he really wants to know he will push but if he just doesnt care and wants to get a piece then he wont tell her to.

i hope he gets everything he deserves in the end and i really hope that you can find a better man who will never leave you like the other piece of shit did...guys are so stupid...i hope you get what you deserve too, but only in a good way. keep your head up <3