the best way to tell your dad your pregnant

may not be the best way for someone else to tell their dad their pregnant...sorry if i use bad grammar on here...[im used to talking on myspace n shit] ahaha but who cares? dont read it if you, well...CANT read it. haha. and you see my original plan was actually to tell him straight up. but i dont wana get beat up, or kicked out with no where to go because he wont be thinking when it comes out of no where...so i thought id make it a lil easier on him...sorry if thats "imature" but dont most teenage girls just say "dad, im pregnant." and most of the dads are mad as hell right? pretty sure wed all agree if we dont have a mother and just live with our dad who pays no attention to them at all. well sorry im not going to do it a way most teenage girls do it. i HAVE done a lot of serious thinking, and yes a million things have popped into my head or what to do or how to tell him. dont tell me to do more thinking, otherwise thatll just make me end up waiting even longer. i just need to do this and get it ova with. and since none of you know my dad at all or how me and his relationships are with one another, then i guess i should not have asked, "what yall think?" because i guess it wouldnt matter what you think because its hard to think something and have an opinion about it when you dont know how it is 100% and all your getting to know about it is a little paragraph of writing posted on this site, ehh?
so anywho, i know the right way to do this. and if any of you think i changed my story, or didnt listen to what u had to say, well, i didnt change my story so u must have been misunderstood and hey ill try to clear that up with you if ya want. and if i did listen to what u had to say, and then realized everyones either judging me cuz thats not what they would do or theyre misunderstanding everything.
any question? ask me and ill just tell you.
but i didnt mean to ask for advice cuz after so many days, actually a few months of serious thinking about how to tell my dad but never doing it, this is how im going to do it.
so i guess alls i wanted is forthe PRESSURE FROM PEOPLEto make me do it. or so i could make myself do it.
dont tell me no ones guna actually call me up and make me do it, of course no one can make me. and by the way i do have people that actually call me up to tell me to do it now, cuz i asked for support, so nice job crackin a joke on me because your wrong about your own joke hahaa.
but i know who i am as aperson, and i know that if i have people telling me to just do it, that itll be easier for me.
i know what im doing, dont tell me differently.
none of you really know me cept from on here in this little forum thingers.
so do what you do and judge whom you dont even know,
or respect the fact that i thought of a different way to do it for a man who has a short temper due to a heart attack when i was only in 7th grade, and i wanted to make it easier on him.
because all the anger will come from being shocked.
so why dont i help that out by hinting it to him a night before he actually knows?
yes u can tell me i mind as well just be straight forward about it as long as im saying that much, i mind as well throw in that im pregnant.
but ya know what?
i dont need that tonight.
im about to puke from the head and have a throbbing headache.
so judge or have some respect, its your choice.

like this:



"Dad, Im pregnant....lets talk about it."


dont overthink it, honestly. there is no "right" or "perfect" way. dont try to sugarcoat it, just do it.

Either write him a letter or just tell him. Hes gonna find out one way or another.

Quoting iam.mama (keiras.mama):“ like this: "Dad, Im pregnant....lets talk about it." dont overthink it, honestly. there is no "right" or "perfect" way. dont try to sugarcoat it, just do it.”

no with my dad theres is no lets talk about it. we went 2 yrs without talking but lived in the same house. he grounds me for two weeks if im out later than usualwhen he neva told me to be home at a certain time.
'dad how to you expect me to know when to be home if you didnt tell me to be home at a certain time? can u really be this mad at me for it? maybe u should just tell me from now on, and i wont be late. "
"no! go back and live with your mom! you dont do any good around here anyways!"
if that gives u a better idea...

and id like to add:
he will respect you more for being responsible and telling him as an adult, you DID chose to have a baby....so now is your FIRST opportunity to show him that you can be an adult

he WILL be upset, your his daughter and nothing will make hearing the news less shocking

be adult about it, you only have one chance

I did it the wimp way and had my mom tell him. He was Happier than ever each time, but well like I said, I'm a wimp when it comes to my dad! lol!

Quoting happilyprego:“ may not be the best way for someone else to tell their dad their pregnant...sorry if i use bad grammar ... [snip!] ... that tonight. im about to puke from the head and have a throbbing headache. so judge or have some respect, its your choice.”

i didn't read all that but if you're asking how to tell your dad you're pregnant, i saw a cute idea on here. some girl gave her dad a bib that said, "i love grandpa" or something like that. at least it'd be something special. i wish i had told my mom or dad that way

EDIT: if you're afraid of him, put the bib or whatever where he can find it himself. like a drawer he opens everyday or something like that.

Quoting happilyprego:“ may not be the best way for someone else to tell their dad their pregnant...sorry if i use bad grammar ... [snip!] ... that tonight. im about to puke from the head and have a throbbing headache. so judge or have some respect, its your choice.”

Do you ride the short bus to school? Just wondering.

Quoting Mes 3 Amour:“ I did it the wimp way and had my mom tell him. He was Happier than ever each time, but well like I said, I'm a wimp when it comes to my dad! lol!”

that's what i did, haha

Why dont ytou live with your mom? Do you think She would be more understanding?

Im am not trying to be rude in any way at all but how old are you? If you are going to be a mommy you gotta just suck it up.. everything is for your child now =)

Quoting happilyprego:“ no with my dad theres is no lets talk about it. we went 2 yrs without talking but lived in the same ... [snip!] ... be late. " "no! go back and live with your mom! you dont do any good around here anyways!" if that gives u a better idea...”

then LET him act that way. you need to just man it up and tell him. youre going to be a mother, and if he doesnt come around....HE will be the one missing out in your/your childs life

my mom told my dad. i'm not sure i would have ever gotten the balls to. but as mad as i expected him to be, he wasn't nearly as mad after a few days.

Quoting EmmaGrace:“ Do you ride the short bus to school? Just wondering.”

bahahahahahahahaha
and i was being nice for a change

but yes, i dont get it either

Quoting iam.mama (keiras.mama):“ bahahahahahahahaha and i was being nice for a change but yes, i dont get it either”

My brain hurts from reading it...lol

Quoting Brads Momma:“ Either write him a letter or just tell him. Hes gonna find out one way or another.”

well at first i was just guna move out into a friends house and come back home after the child was born. so he WOULDNT find out lol but i never thought of a letter...i think thatd be way better. thank you for the idea! that one neva crossed my mind.
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