Which is the Father? My I feel Dumb:(

Im stupid...I know it...But my ex-husband claims that he and I had sex on Jan. 14th...I clearly do not remember. I had my period (I think thats what it was) on Jan.19th...The one before that took place on Dec. 4th - However I continued to sleep with my current boyfriend/fianice...I got pregnant some where in between. My due date is Oct. 23rd...I went to the doctor last week and they told me that its been changed to Nov. 8th. SO...I am one confused cookie.   I feel really bad...I really dont recall sleepig with my ex...he claimed that we didnt use protection but he also said he pulled out...I feel so stupid and I'm really too old for this. So now, Im confused and feel like I should be on the Maury show or something...Is there any real way to tell the time you concieved? - NOTE: I got engaged in Feb. My ex was really good...so I WOULD REMEBR sleeping with him...however, a lot took place in Jan. so I continue to wonder...Did I....Either way the dates dont add up...you carry a child (full term) for 266 days.

You should be on Maury, and you'll have to wait for the DNA test to come back.

wouldn't you remmber having sex wiht an ex while your engaged?... i didn't mean that to be rude.. just saying if you don't remember maybe hes lying..?

So.....what what the question?  

YOu will have to wait to get a paternity test to be absolutely sure.

Sucks

Quoting Connor's mom♥:“ wouldn't you remmber having sex wiht an ex while your engaged?... i didn't mean that to be rude.. just saying if you don't remember maybe hes lying..?”

  you will have to wait til the baby comes!!

even if he pulled out there's precum.. Do they both know the situation? That could be kinda awkward

lol drama is funny...

are they related then you can go on an even better show Jerry Springer...

How do you not remember having sex?

I, too, am confused....how would you not remember having sex w/ the ex while you are engaged to your current fiancee?  I don't get it!  Either you had sex or you didn't, it's not like you don't remember if you bumped into him in the supermarket in January!

You can order a DNA test off the internet for like $100 I dont know how reliable they are but you can google them. I ordered one for my husband because his ex was trying to pin a baby on him... And of course I was right it wasnt his after all

how do you not remember having sex? sorry but that doesnt make any sense.

Quoting KTB:“ How do you not remember having sex?”

I was wondering that too, because I can assure you, I have never had sex and not remembered it. Then again maybe I have. How would I know if I didn't remember? This is a complicated concept we have on our hands here...

It's easy to not remember having sex if you are drunk. (I'm assuming that she was.) 

Quoting Poofter.:“ You should be on Maury, and you'll have  

to wait for the DNA test to come back.”

  agreed