Quoting Mommy G [to be!]:“ To be honest, i'm terrified of having one as well. It never crossed my mind in the beginning, but ... [snip!] ... healthy pregnancy, you will have a healthy pregnancy." And that's all I can go off of for now. The rest is in God's hands...”

well thats shit for anyone to say such a thing. but instead of thinking it the way your friends say(in the event that you do m/c you wont feel to blame) just think that everything happens for a reason and that nothing you can do will stop one, as well as nothing you did will cause it.

Quoting Merk:“ just out of cureosity, what do you do if you lose one if you have multiple... does he/she have to stay ... [snip!] ... sorry, ive just always wondered because twins run in my family and since ive already miscarried i think about what would happen”

Ill PM you.

Quoting nnnicole:“ Im having a multiple birth, I orignially started out with 3, but lost one. So now Im having twins.”

my mom did the same thing with me an my twin...she lost our triplet.

Quoting ♥ ThEiR mOmMy &hea:“ That is a horrible thing to say! Good luck!!!!! I had one in June at 7 weeks...And I am scared to try ... [snip!] ... painful than I could imagine. I get sad if I see someone who has a due date around the same time mine would have been due.”

I am very sorry for your loss...
i almost feel guilty for my first reaction to finding out i was pregnant.. i was almost sad about it, i am not yet ready to be a mommy..

but after she said those words to me, aside from the feeling of wanting to kick her in the throat, i realized how extremely attached to this little person i actually am.. it's amazing

I didnt answer on the poll becuase I hav had 3 loses. I had a m/c in March 2005 at abotu 5-6weeks, I had a Stillbirth on June 16, 2006 at 34weeks, and i had a m/c in May 2007 at 5weeks. And I am currently waiting to find out if my pregnancy is aviable prgnancy or a chemical pregnancy.

Merk- about your question with the twins- It depends on how far along you ar when you lose one. If it happens early on your body tends to pass it naturally and still keep the other baby, If it happens late enough where you would have to go through labor then they wait til the living baby is ready.

Quoting Ashlyn & Connor's mommy:“ well thats shit for anyone to say such a thing. but instead of thinking it the way your friends say(in ... [snip!] ... think that everything happens for a reason and that nothing you can do will stop one, as well as nothing you did will cause it.”

exactly. thanks.  

Quoting HawaiiNessa -DD-GS-:“ I didnt answer on the poll becuase I hav had 3 loses. I had a m/c in March 2005 at abotu 5-6weeks, I ... [snip!] ... the other baby, If it happens late enough where you would have to go through labor then they wait til the living baby is ready.”

thanks for answering.. ive been trying to figure that out foreverr.

Quoting nnnicole:“ Ill PM you.”

thanks!

I lost my twins at 16 weeks 6 days.

my water broke at 12weeks and then a missed miscarriage at 10 weeks 4 days baby stop growing at 8 weeks

all mine happened between 8-12 weeks, my longest was 12 weeks, but the twins died at 8wks 2days, and 8wks 3daysand i carried them for another 4 weeks, before i started bleeding out.

I was 10 weeks exactly. But the baby stopped growing around 6 weeks 3 days.

Wow there A LOT of late m/c! I was 19 wks and 22 wks 5days

I was 8 weeks when I lost my litte bean

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