what the hell

ok so i went to my midwife meeting today i go every week now.She told me to jump on the bed to feel baby and hear the heartbet well i jump on and she tells me baby is posteria and im just like oh wtf cause my sisters baby was posteria and its a realy painful labor???Has anybody on here had a posteria baby and what has your labor been like she then tells me im NOT aloud to take any panireleif while im in labor and my mum said no if there are drugs and she asks to have painreleif then she can i realy dont feel comftable with here she never listens to me..She then is trying to make me go to support groups because im only 16 but i have a big family that is supporting me i just dont know what to do because ive changed midwifes already and theres only 4weeks to go im realy stuck here cause shes a right BITCH....

If you are that uncomfortable with her find a new midwife who cares if there is only 4 weeks left... If another midwife will take you this far in your pregnancy then get a new one... You should be very comfortable with your midwife or any doctor frankly

HMMMMM.....I guess it would help if I knw what posteria was!  

When most babys are born they come out facing the mums bum but posteria means that babys back is lieing on my back so there for she wil be born looking up at the sun :-)

You still have four weeks. That's more than enough time for the baby to switch possitions.

Why aren't you allowed any pain meds?

my daughter was like that, but apparently it takes a doctor that knows what the are doing because my doctor turned mine before i started pushing

my midwife thinks im not aloud to have any pain meds?i mean shes not the one pushing the baby out

Is there a medical reason why you can't get drugs? If not she can't deny you

i might change aye because i realy dont feel comftable with her aye shes a real bitch

Quoting micah ♥:“ You still have four weeks. That's more than enough time for the baby to switch possitions. Why aren't you allowed any pain meds?”

I'm the sister she was talking about ha,my daughter was sunny side up I still had 5 weeks left when I was told,she never switchedpossitions it runs in my family.

Quoting I got my sunshine!:“ Is there a medical reason why you can't get drugs? If not she can't deny you”

Her midwife truly is a dog,I hate her myself lolol but most midwives here like it if you dont have ANY drugs at all while in labor