re: would you snoop?

Quoting Countys Mommy:“ I did cause when we first moved here to japan he would get on MSN and YAHOO and talk to girls and get ... [snip!] ... came in there and kissed me and checked up on me while talking to her, gosh, i was pissed off when i read it the next morning.”

I sure hope you're not still with the loser.

Isn't the real concern that you are even thinking about snooping...that makes me think you beleive there is something he is sneaking around about. I guess I just always grew up seeing a very open relationship between my parents, and now with me and my bf...I don't really care what he is doing, or who is talking too, or whatever! I just want to know that he loves me, and that he is taking responsibiltiy of his current daughter and baby to be!

But on the other hand, nothing has even happened to where Iever needed to snoop....and maybe if something did happen in the past between us, I would feel different....tough one!

I think it's wrong. I wouldn't want him going through my stuff, even though I have nothing to hide and I wouldn't go through his. To me it's a sign of mistrust. And even in marriage, you need some privacy and somethings to yourself. I have never believed in doing that because I wouldn't want it done to me.

I have a keylogger on my computer and I see everything my husband does, though he kinda knows I snoop on him. He cheated on me when we were first married, and I left him for it. Now we are back together but under the condition that I'll spy all I want and he can't say a damn word about it!

I've always been really nosy and even went through mybrother's email when I found out his password.   I'm just bad!!

Quoting meridian:“ his email is our email. We both use it. I clean out his junk mail. All he gets anyway are email forwards for the most part.He has the password to mine but I don't think he knows how to use it.”

same here we both know each others passwords and sometimes he emails from mine and I email from his.. we really don't care much though