mother in law issues

well i have decided my husbands mother is crazy and does not care anything about me her son or her grandson. let me explain to yall. when me and my husband were dating 5 years ago she liked me perfectly fine. then it camt the time where me and my husband got pregnant and decided to get married all of a sudden the women became pychotic and hated me and was so mean to me and just all of these crazy things. she even brain washed my husband to the point where we postponed our wedding for months. then finnaly my husband realized his mom is crazy. then allof that died down. but ever since then she makes rude comments about how shes not excited for the baby to come and that me and my husband are just to young. then the next moment shes excited for it. she had never boughten one thing for our child. then my baby shower came and you would expect her to buy alot of things. and to my suprise her gift was a rocking duck from a garage sell she had gotten the day before the shower. and heres the topper of them all. my husband has just been deployed last week. he left his car here for me to have while he is gone. and me and his mom and his brothers when down to his base to get the car and say bye. my MIL tricked me and ended up having my husbands brother take it home to my knowledge they were doing this bc he was tired in the end they are now holding the car hostage from me untill i get insurance to drive it even though i have to put it in the mechanics any ways. the only reason im letting this happen is because thats what my husband asked me to do so me and his family wont fight. i cant standthat family.

I would kill someone. ugh

Quoting lilmama68:“ well i have decided my husbands mother is crazy and does not care anything about me her son or her grandson. ... [snip!] ... letting this happen is because thats what my husband asked me to do so me and his family wont fight. i cant standthat family.”

your MIL sounds like mine!!! Bi Polar haha.

Quoting KrissyD:“ your MIL sounds like mine!!! Bi Polar haha.”

yea i think shes some kind of crazy. shes tottaly obbsessed with her children and not in a normal loving way. like when her kids get money she wants them to pay for everything. like when we were saying bye to my husband before he deployed she gets in the big arguement with him about money. it was crazy shes tottaly white trash and i cant wait till my husband gets home from deployment and we get thehell out of texas away from that crazy lady!

Quoting lilmama68:“ yea i think shes some kind of crazy. shes tottaly obbsessed with her children and not in a normal loving ... [snip!] ... trash and i cant wait till my husband gets home from deployment and we get thehell out of texas away from that crazy lady!”

wow yeah, my MIL is somewhat of the same way. she wanted my husband (before we got married) to stay in the barracks and save money to help her pay things off instead of moving in with me. I understood that he wanted to help her all I really needed was his credit to move into an apartment since mine was crappy so I told him, I'd pay for rent and everything I just wanted him to help me get into the place and move in with me and he did anyways. she hasn't liked me since haha. she swears I'm using him even though I have a full time job and I can support myself. she even went so far as to for one, she didn't come to our wedding and 2 she disowned my husband when we told her I was preg (we'd been married a year and a half by that point and we're both 22) it was insane!

Quoting KrissyD:“ wow yeah, my MIL is somewhat of the same way. she wanted my husband (before we got married) to stay in ... [snip!] ... my husband when we told her I was preg (we'd been married a year and a half by that point and we're both 22) it was insane!”

yea since my husband was deploying we havent moved in together yet. and the women is like when yall do i will visit every month. please just go away is what i want to tell her. and my husband wont be here for the birth and she was allowed to come to the hospital after the babys born but now since she thinks its okay to hold my husbands car hostage my family hates her and she is now not allowed to be at the hospital and if she comes up there im just going to be like yea nurse to not let that lady in.

Quoting lilmama68:“ yea since my husband was deploying we havent moved in together yet. and the women is like when yall do ... [snip!] ... is now not allowed to be at the hospital and if she comes up there im just going to be like yea nurse to not let that lady in.”

haha! yeah I wouldn't let her in either! I can't believe that she is holding your husband's car hostage! do you have a power of attorney?!? I'd get the damn car from her haha. if anything I'd tell your husband about it and ask him what you can do about it. my MIL is starting to get better about everything but she still makes me nervous cause I think the only reason why she's being so nice is cause she wants to be in her granddaughters life which I completely understand I wasn't going to take that away from her anyways! but she wants to be there when the baby is born which is hard cause she's gonna come when she wants to come but all I can say is, the only people allowed in the room when I give birth are my husband and my mama. I dont think I'd be able to do it without my mom she's been there with me through it all...

yea my MIL dont even act like she wants to have a grandson. people ask her omg arent you soo excited to be a grandma shes like NO. im just like wow okay thanks. and you know normal grandparents spoil there grandchildren no not her the only thing she has boughten him and probably ever will buy him is a damn rocking duck that he wont even be able to use till hes older. yea i have power of attorney and i know i can go and get that car. but my husband says for me to just wait till he comes back on R&R and he will handle it.

Quoting lilmama68:“ yea my MIL dont even act like she wants to have a grandson. people ask her omg arent you soo excited ... [snip!] ... i know i can go and get that car. but my husband says for me to just wait till he comes back on R&R and he will handle it.”

well that sucks that he wont let you take thecar but oh well... you can only do so much! I hope things get better!

Ohh the stories I could tell you of my MIL.

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I don't have any MIL stories since my husband lost his mother at 15, but from what I heard from all my SIL she was a very loving and giving woman so I probably would have nice stories, but now my husband could probably give you some duzzies when it comes to his FILaka Daddy!