Just when it can't get better
posted 14th Jul '08
Well ladies...some of you know what's been going on with the "children's father". I realize some don't so, to make it brief, he walks out on me, 7 months pregnant with a 7 year old daughter to be with his g/f. Nuff said.
Anyway, had to go to the doc this morning for my regular checkup. Everything went well and I stopped by the house on my way to work. While I was at the doc he sent me a text asking if he could go by the house and get our daughter a few of her movies. Fine. We're not divorced, there is not property division yet, and in this state when you're married, until that divorce is final saying who gets what, he can pretty much go to the house all he wants.
Anyway, I get home to change and get ready for work. My little girl wanted to watch a movie there and they're in the living room. No biggie. So, I throw some stuff in the dryer, and start to mop the floor to kill time before I leave for work. Basically so I don't have to sit there and look at his dumb A self.At any rate he and my daughter stay there for about 30 minutes. He knew I had a doc appointment today, my daughter even asked me where I had been and I told her right in front of him (so he can't say now he didn't know). You know this ass doesn't even ask how the baby is and if everything went ok at the appointment. I joke you not. Not a word. Not even a "how you feeling?". Ok fine, don't worry about me...that's not the problem. It's evident he doesn't care for me but, HELLO!! I'm carrying your child!! I know he's pissed because I told him I didn't want him in the delivery room and didn't think he deserved to be there. Fine, but be pissed at me about it. Yeah, you got a g/f...but this is your baby!! So, if there was any friggin doubt in my mind, I know exactly where his priorities are. And he wants to try to make me out to look like a bad parent. That's ok. He's just giving me more ammo for the divorce lawyer.
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