I am back! Do I have to tell everyone something!

Well Hi everyone! I haven't been on in a while but I am back now, and do I have some things to say! Well me and my husband were having sex tmi, and well we were using protection but he already wants another baby so what does he do... He puts holes in the condom! I can't believe he did that! So now it is possible that I am expecting #2! Gabby is about to be 4 months on the 18! She was born prematurely at 28 weeks! So now I am scared that I am pregnant again and that I may have another preemie baby. I don't think I can go through the whole NICU journey again. But can yall believe that he did that? I guess it is also my fault for not getting on the pill.

i would be sooo pistttt

Quoting *Soopastahhhhh:“ i would be sooo pistttt”

Oh believe me I am pissed off!!

i'd kick his ass  

i am sorry to say this vut that was very wrong for him too do. he is being very selfish an not thinking of your needs, your body has been through alot an you are probley very streested out. i hope everything goes good for you, you should have a talk with him

Quoting Gabby and Alex are my LIF:“ Well Hi everyone! I haven't been on in a while but I am back now, and do I have some things to say! Well ... [snip!] ... the whole NICU journey again. But can yall believe that he did that? I guess it is also my fault for not getting on the pill.”

how selfish.

O*M*G Seriously...I'm almost speechless. An action like that from my husband would require a long sit down chat about why that was NOT okay. Are you going to get on some BC now since you know you can't trust him with it?

Quoting jennie90744:“ i am sorry to say this vut that was very wrong for him too do. he is being very selfish an not thinking ... [snip!] ... been through alot an you are probley very streested out. i hope everything goes good for you, you should have a talk with him”

We have talked and I told him how i feel but also if i am pregnant I am keeping my baby. I can't bring myself to have an abortion or give my baby up. He feels very bad now for what he did.

Wow I would be so pissed I'm sorry. 

ummm.
seriously?
you seem so...upset?  

Quoting Grant's Waddling Belly:“ O*M*G Seriously...I'm almost speechless. An action like that from my husband would require a long sit ... [snip!] ... long sit down chat about why that was NOT okay. Are you going to get on some BC now since you know you can't trust him with it?”

Oh yeah, but I will not start birth control until I know if I am pregnant or not. But oh we sure as Hell are not having sex!

if my husband pulled that shit, he wouldn't be my husband anymore.

Wow! That was out of line, you two should have discussed having more children, poking holes in the condom is deceptive! I hope that everything works out for you!

Quoting Meg.:“ ummm. seriously? you seem so...upset?  ”

So what are you trying to say? Cause it seems like you are trying to be a smart ass

Quoting Gabby and Alex are my LIF:“ So what are you trying to say? Cause it seems like you are trying to be a smart ass”

Good catch.
Your husband doesn't respect you