So confused!

Me and my boyfriend argue over everything. We fight i mean i'm not going to play innocent i've slapped him and thrown things at him, and he mushed me, pushed me down even smacked me. I try not to argue with him because i dont want to upset the baby. I dont know what to do. I want to break up with him but then i dont.. like i want my son to have a father that is acutally living with us. I'm going to be moving in with him August 1st but now i dont think that is such a good idea. I'm so confused i dont know if i should stay with him or if i should leave him.

Quoting Due August 8, 2008:“ Me and my boyfriend argue over everything. We fight i mean i'm not going to play innocent i've slapped ... [snip!] ... but now i dont think that is such a good idea. I'm so confused i dont know if i should stay with him or if i should leave him.”

i think you guys should def look into some counseling.....

Quoting Due August 8, 2008:“ Me and my boyfriend argue over everything. We fight i mean i'm not going to play innocent i've slapped ... [snip!] ... but now i dont think that is such a good idea. I'm so confused i dont know if i should stay with him or if i should leave him.”

i would never be with someone who was physically violent with me, it wont get easier when the baby comes, i would RUN now about a million miles a minute away from that train wreck

If you two fight, violently, rather than just argue...and he KNOWS you're pregnant....well yeah, I'm pretty sure you should just dump his ass. >=/

I would leave him. Not just for you but to protect you child. 

i've tried to leave even before i was pregnant. But he said he would change and for some reason i believed him. Now i just feel like im trapped

Quoting Due August 8, 2008:“ Me and my boyfriend argue over everything. We fight i mean i'm not going to play innocent i've slapped ... [snip!] ... but now i dont think that is such a good idea. I'm so confused i dont know if i should stay with him or if i should leave him.”

I understand where you are coming from, I am going through something similar right now. You are a mom now and you know damn well that you can take care of your son with or without a father, if he is being physically abusive then maybe you need a break from eachother. He should not be treating you like that especially when you are pregnant with his child. Do not move in with him right now until things get better, maybe you could seek some counseling, if not together atleast by yourselves. I know you want your child to have a father, but no matter if you are or not together he will still have a father. You need to be careful with the arguing, your child feels how you feel and it could lead you to go into early labor or have other difficulties, if you have to leave if you get into an argument, then leave and take some space to cool off and then try to have a civilized conversation. But if this continues I would recommend you to leave him because what he is doing to you is NOT right. And it is not right for you to do the same back. Please think about the moving in, things will continue to get worse unless you guys sit down and have a real conversation and throw your feelings out on the table without getting into a fight. Good luck!

Stay moved out. Tell him if he wants to see his kid at all, you and him will get into couseling.

If you're worried and you're scared, how do you think a child will feel?

There is no reason for a child to be exposed to that.

I dont think its such a good idea. 

Leave... If he is doing that to you when you're pregnant what is he gonna do when the baby is here??!! 

Quoting Due August 8, 2008:“ i've tried to leave even before i was pregnant. But he said he would change and for some reason i believed him. Now i just feel like im trapped”

At least you aren't living together yet right?? You can stay where you are right now??

Quoting Pregalicious [MAEK]:“ At least you aren't living together yet right?? You can stay where you are right now??”

Of course.. right now im living with my parents but he wants me to move in with him.

Is this happening while youre pregnant?

I mean, its bad when youre not pregnant, but it's REALLY bad if he's doing it while you are.

You need to leave this guy. There is no telling what he'll do when there is a screaming baby in the picture that is fueling his anger.

Quoting Due August 8, 2008:“ Of course.. right now im living with my parents but he wants me to move in with him.”

And are you going to?

Quoting babyboo.:“ And are you going to?”

i dont know yet.