Ashamed to be a teen mom :[ majorr vent.

ok not exactly. just ashamed of it and living in my TOWN. seriously throughout this whole pregnancy i was just beside myself the whole time. i lost all contact with anyone/everyone because i decided to go through with this and all they wanted to do was go bestupid and pop pills all and every weekend  and now..within like 3 days...2 people who ive always had some issues with and who most DEFINETLY ran their mouths about me for the past 9 months..are "preggo!" and "baby mamas" now. i seriously want to PUKE. their so pathetic. and have the nerve to write about it all over their myspace profiles about how scared they are and blah blah blah..i know for a fact they both tried to make it happen!! they really have no idea! and i feel SO horribly for the kids especially. i dont want to wish anything bad on them cause im a strong believer in karma..but im so at my wits end with all of their idiot..ness   ugh sorry this is a huge vent but can anyone kind of relate?!

I do think alot of girls do it when they find out their friends are or their enemies are because they aren't liking how much attention that other person is getting. But some....it happens like mine. They just got a little stupid. But I don't regret this. I'm having a baby girl and couldn't be happier.

everyone needs to vent now and then - trust. but man, ignore the haters, ignore the hos tryin to start drama, enjoy being a new mom   keep on trucking, finish school, do what's good for you, and don't worry what other people say. in the end, they're gonna get theirs.

It seems like everyone is getting pregnant. Not just in your town- even in MY TOWN ! It's insane. Even celebrities. It's an epidemic.

Some people do it on purpose, some do it by accident, but it happens. It's defiantley something to vent about, but not something we may be able to change!

i just hav 2 say this your due the day b efore me and were bth having boys .......  this is so cool 

i agree with mommy 2 be @ 18. i was on birthcontrol both times and i was 15 when i go pregnant with my first and a lot of my family that isn't close or anything tried to put their 2 cents in and a lot of my friends did the exact same thing as they did to you but now everyone i know is having babies even the ones who were talking crap. they think its going to keep their boyfriends around when its not. if its not meant to be for them its not meant to be..a baby doesn't make a relationship. i know exactly how you feel.

Quoting [[MOMMY OF TWO BOYS]]:“ i agree with mommy 2 be @ 18. i was on birthcontrol both times and i was 15 when i go pregnant with my ... [snip!] ... its not. if its not meant to be for them its not meant to be..a baby doesn't make a relationship. i know exactly how you feel.”

you realllly nailed exactly what i couldnt in my little rant haha. it just annoys me so much because i didnt TRY to make this happen..it just did! i was taking precautions..so was my bf..and we had to deal with the consequences. and now..its like their WANT to deal with that stress! but even more so it was hard for ME just to change my ways and stop being a teenager but to be a mom. i just have a feeling all they see coming out of this is some cute new babies and no responsibility. i guess ill see how it all turns out in the end..which im thinking might not be so good ha 

Quoting malilboyTAVION:“ i just hav 2 say this your due the day b efore me and were bth having boys .......  this is so cool ”

haha!   ya i dont know about yoouu but im starting to get really anxious over here!!

i get it from my fiance's family and my mom's side of the family.

my fiance's family does like me, a lot, but they think of him as "a child" still.. and hes 25! we live on our own, pay our own bills.. but they still feel like they have to trash talk me being pregnant.. like i did it on purpose, im trying to pin him down, im too young.. or they talk to him on the phone (we live 100 miles away from his family) and try and scare him into thinking im trying to harm the baby! he tells them how im preggo and still cleaning and cooking, they say, "she cant do that! she'll kill the baby!".. or my favorite, last monday at our doctors appointment i was 27W1D, and the baby weighed 2lbs3oz. when he told them, they said the baby should be 6 or 7 pounds and i must not be eating. ughhh. and dont get me started on my mom's side of the family.. im an "evil slut" who was "going to hell anyway" because im not baptized catholic.. and my fiance is a "hoodlum" because hes from a bad city. so no matter what age, where you live, who you are.. getting pregnant seems to ALWAYS have drama behind it!

Quoting lainybabi:“ i get it from my fiance's family and my mom's side of the family. my fiance's family does like me, a ... [snip!] ... from a bad city. so no matter what age, where you live, who you are.. getting pregnant seems to ALWAYS have drama behind it!”

wow all that would probably drive me right off a cliff haha. yeah pregnancy is the most amazing thing ever..but it comes with ALOT more than a few symptoms hah 

I got pregnant with my 3 1/2 year old a month after my 16th birthday. I am now pregnant with my second and I am 21. I went through the whole drama thing when I had my son and I have to tell you that it is nothing to be ashamed of. Some things just happen. I wouldn't worry about it. I agree that some people just get mad that they aren't getting the same attention as you are and they do what they can to get that.... I am going through it with this pregnancy too though so it maybe something that never ends.  

all but 2 or 3 "friends" left [i really dont talk to them because i dont trust the fact that they know all the people and i really dont trust them thats why i put the quotes around them]. and turned there back against me and said all this crap about me. honestly i had to get my parents house and all our cell numbers changed because people would call non stop BOTH parents and their kids. my parents told dmine how much of a bad parent they were and there kids. basically harassed be to no end calling my fone at 3 or 4 in the morning saying i was a slut and a ugly bitch andd a whore and i slept around and if i knew who the baby daddy was he was going to jail and that was the reason in 8th grade i was pulled out of school soo i wouldnt be embarrassed[and FYI if that was the reason my baby would of been here already yah people are stupid and have no life]blah blah blah. i ignored it. i yeah i broke down and cried alot but i learned that not everyone was my real friend. people came out about stuff and showed there true color.and i have to live my life. i honestly love the thought of being a mommy. and yeah one of them ended up pregnant and shes in the grade below me and shes a year younger. and its ohh soo fabulous for her to get pregnant and everyone cant wait to see the baby. yeah that hurts. but hey thats life. you have to learn to move on [sorry if there are spelling mistakes i upgraded my firefox and i cant find the spell check] i just keep to myself now. i just hang around my hubbys friends girlfriends and thats it. life goes on though ya now? just have to live and learn from it.

Quoting JuLY 27Th**:“ you realllly nailed exactly what i couldnt in my little rant haha. it just annoys me so much because ... [snip!] ... new babies and no responsibility. i guess ill see how it all turns out in the end..which im thinking might not be so good ha ”

yeah i know its crazy. its not as easy as people think. especially when you are young. yeah it may seem so simple and oh i can do it no matter what..but they have to think they can't go be kids anymore they have kids they have to take care of and put first no matter what. i freaked out when i found out i was pregnant again. i know how hard it was to have hayden..he was 2mths early and had to stay in the hospital for a while and the whole time i was pregnant i had a lot of complications. it wasn't good and i think thats what made me grow up so fast is having complications and thinking that he wasn't going to make it and really hits you that you have a child to take care of. some ppl just don't see that..its like u said they see cute new babies lol.