i am so upset right now

im having my baby via csection on monday, so im want to get my house clean this weekend so when i come home from having surgery i dont have a dirty house.... my husband has swore to me all week that he would help me. this morning we got up and him and our son went and got haircuts... on the way home he told me lets get everything done today so we can relax sunday, we get home and immediatly him and my son start playing video games. it took me almost two hours to get him up and moving. all he did was vaccum the living room and sweep and mop the kitchen. i cleaned all day, and kept asking him to do other things, like put an icechest under the house and clean our fan in our room. things that are just hard for me to do. he kept me putting me off all day. well 9 rolls around tonight and i told him, dont bitch tommorrow when i ask you to do the things that i have been asking u to do all day. he totally blew up at me and say didnt i do enough today.... so he gets up and does some of the stuff. then a lil while later he dropped ice on the floor in the kitchen i asked him very nicely would u mind picking that up so i dont come through and slip on it and he starts screaming at me.....im so mad right now, i have been cleaning and doing laundry all day. i had to pack his and my sons stuff and repack mine and the babies things for the hospital and he has the nerve to say well all i saw u do today was sit around... i cnt believe how much of an ahole he is being. as of right now i dont think i even want him to stay in the hospital with me, i would much rather be alone then to be hollered at everytime i open my mouth and ask anything out of him. if he thinks its bad now what is he going to do this week when i need his help consatntly.... sorry this is so long, thanks for reading if u got this far

Can I beat your husband up???? Its not that freaken hard to help out around the house. And from what you've said he hasn't done that much work. Hell I could get all the stuff he did, and it wouldn't take all day. It might take 2 hours at the most... and thats if I'm slow

Quoting Ben & Miley's Mommy:“ im having my baby via csection on monday, so im want to get my house clean this weekend so when i come ... [snip!] ... is he going to do this week when i need his help consatntly.... sorry this is so long, thanks for reading if u got this far”

that's messed up! what a jerk.why are men like this? they're all the same it seems. sad sad. 

Awww, hun! I'm sorry. All that I can really say is that guys can be really stupid sometimes!! A lot! He should totally be helping you out right now. You really don't need all that extra stress right before your c-sec. I hope all goes well for you! Good luck!!! Sorry your man is being a tool! I know all about that! They can really piss you off!!! Hope he gets off his ass and helps out tomorrow!!

I get little to no help around the house too so I know how you feel...it's even worse now though cause I'm supposed to be on bedrest but I still have to clean and stuff, if I don't do it it doesn't get done.  

I hope he gets over his man period or whatever his issue is because you are right, you don't need that shit right now.

I'm sorry! That sucks, but remember he's a guy, and they are just big babies. Probably he's getting nervous about the baby so he's just being a brat himself. Sounds alot like my husband. Just ignore his little fits (I know its hard!!) and continue making him do what needs to be done. If you get along with his mom you could always call her and tell on him, that's what I would do.. lol.

i would love to call his mommy and tell her but she would just tell me this is part of being a women we have to do it all, and then she would tell me how his dad never helped her and she worked till the day she had him... blah blah!!!!!!! hes being a lil nicer but there is still alot of tension between us. im done fighting with him and anything he didnt do im going to just do

So sorry. How rude and insensitive.

Quoting Ben & Miley's Mommy:“ i would love to call his mommy and tell her but she would just tell me this is part of being a women ... [snip!] ... lil nicer but there is still alot of tension between us. im done fighting with him and anything he didnt do im going to just do”

well that figures, he must have learned it from them. Sorry  ( They have it so easy just because they have a penis and can throw bigger fits. So not fair.