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Quoting bem♥alm:“ yeah, im not. i still talk to him, every once in a while, when he calls. and i told him he could be ... [snip!] ... what it feels like not to know your father, & i would NEVER do that to her. i just hope when she gets here he steps up.”

well you sound like you have a good head on your shoulders.
hopefully he'll mature ... we all know guys see to lag in that department  
best of luck!

honestly i believe u did the right thing... you are all the way right ... Josh should step up because he is going to be a dad not because his mommy says too. I have a babys daddy who is just like what i read ... and i have told him im not going to sit around and wait for him to do anything because it would never happen... the only time my babys dad has ever done anything is because of his mommy... Girl if they have to have their mommys tell them what they need to do then they dont want to step up and be a dad so we are just better off on our own... i think u did the right thing dont worry about it

I think you did the right thing. you are 100% right. he needs to step up and realize he has a baby coming soon, and that his daughter is going to need him when shes growing up. yes you will be an amazing mommy, but every little girl needs a daddy. he needs to grow up and take responsibility for his daughter. his mommy shouldnt be telling him to go help you, he should want to do it himself. and if aint gonna do anything for you or HIS daughter, than your better off by yourself. all lilly needs is her WONDERFUL mommy : )))