bleh men suck

I so need to vent
OK so here is the thing. I have had about 12 hours of sleep in the last 6 days. Not because of my kids or anything but just because its me..and I don't know why. Last night my hubby came home from work (he works 12 hour shifts)...He ate dinner, played with the kids, checked some stuff out online and started to get ready for bed. By the time he was getting ready for bed I had all the kids asleep. He goes into the bathroom and takes a shower. Of course he comes back out all naked and stuffs cause he knows I like it like that. Anyways he crawls into bed and says to me "hey...come cuddle with me and be nice". So then I tell him "im tired"...so he gets all pissy and says "well i guess no sex for me tonight"

Never in all the 16 years that we have been together have I ever turned that man down. But going to nursing school, having the new baby, and taking care of the big kids cause of summer vacation is really kicking my ass. I can't believe he tried to guilt me into having sex. Needless to say I just turned over and went to sleep.

This morning when I got up to make him some lunch and coffee( i was awake anyways)....he got his stuff and walked out the door without even giving me a kiss or anything...like WTF. I'm angry and tired and confused on how I should handle it. Any ideas without bashing him to pieces cause he's usually such a nice guy.

Let it pass he will be over it and why argue it sounds like you have your hands full already!

I would just explain how exausted you are. I'm sure he can understand that everything is just taking a toll on your body. Let him know that it isn't that you didn't want to have sex, but you really are to tired to do anything else.

My ex, and son's father, pulled something similar to this one night. I wanted to go to bed, but he wanted to stay up a while and then have sex. I told him I was just going to go to bed because I didn't feel like staying up and waiting. He got his panties in a bunch and we ended up fighting for about three hours.

So yeah, I guess it's best you didn't say anything after that. He'll get over it. Promise.

Thats pretty much why I didn't say anything else this morning. I didn't want to start an argument out of something so pathetic. I guess I was just stunned that he would try to play that card.