i dont like having sex anymore

maybe im stupid, but what do you mean, hes trying to put all of it in?

You could be dry or swollen down there.. there are alot of reasons sex at the end of pregnancy is uncomfy/painful.

me and my hubby are the same way but the other night i for some reason wanted it so bad and well it didnt hurt for the first time in i dont know how long. But i have to be on top that is the only way it dont kill me

trying to put his whole thing in me

Quoting leese_pooh:“ Me and my boyfriend havent been really having sex because it hurts. Im currently 35 weeks and i dint ... [snip!] ... trying to but hurts. My friend told me its because he's trying to put all of it in but i dont know what to do HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!”

mmm im only 16 weeks n sometimes when me n my DH do it, it hurts n its because he tries to put it all in to.. i try tellin him he gotta be easy cuz they baby still kinda low on me n i dont wanna hurt it... so now he tries to put some of it on "reserve" as he calls it so he dont put to much in... hahaha

jus try talking to him about it explain to him why it hurts sometimes n tell him when it does hurt so he can be a lil more careful so that yall dont hurt the baby...

now when we do it if he hurts me i let him know right then and there n he calms down a lil.. now its working pretty good!!

Quoting leese_pooh:“ trying to put his whole thing in me”

LMAO! Sorry i have the giggles today!
Anyway, i know exactly what you mean, it hurts when i do it too, its like its moist down there and we use lube but it still feels like its too tight! I dont know the reason for this feeling though, im kinda shy in person so i've never asked my dr about it, plus my mom and sis usually take me to the dr so my hunny doesnt have to take off work so that would be weird to bring up in front of them... so i'll just read other replies.. lol

oh i have heard doing it doggy style might help, because then in that position the baby has more room so it should hurt less!

Quoting skh:“ maybe im stupid, but what do you mean, hes trying to put all of it in?”

haha umm all of his "peter"
haha

Quoting Mz. Manning:“ mmm im only 16 weeks n sometimes when me n my DH do it, it hurts n its because he tries to put it ... [snip!] ... now when we do it if he hurts me i let him know right then and there n he calms down a lil.. now its working pretty good!!”

i've told him thats why were not doin anything right now cuz he doesnt want to hurt me or the baby

Quoting chrissmomi05:“ LMAO! Sorry i have the giggles today! Anyway, i know exactly what you mean, it hurts when i do it too, ... [snip!] ... hunny doesnt have to take off work so that would be weird to bring up in front of them... so i'll just read other replies.. lol”

yea im scared 2 ask too cuz i have a male doctor and i already feel uncomfortable already

Quoting chrissmomi05:“ oh i have heard doing it doggy style might help, because then in that position the baby has more room so it should hurt less!”

we've tried that but it took some of the pain anyway but not all of it i think were just gon have sex after the baby gets here. he doesnt wanna do anything that i dont wanna do

Quoting leese_pooh:“ yea im scared 2 ask too cuz i have a male doctor and i already feel uncomfortable already”

You should never be uncomfortable to ask your doctor anything. They look at old lady cooter all day...your questions should be the highlight of his day!

And everything down there is mega swollen during pregnancy, that is why i can feel super tight. Plus hormones make everything more sensitive.

I hated sex when I was pregnant,but now it's GREAT