im so angry..

my boyfriend is going to calgary for the weekend for a tournament and i was completly ok with it.
but one of his ex girl friends is in the alberta area (where we live) and i asked him last week. are you visiting her while your in calgary? and he said no, shes already back in winnipeg(where shes from)
and now while his msn was left on. she messages him telling him directions on how to get to her place this weekened. what the fuck???!?!?!?! why did he have to lie? im so pissedd

Ohhhhh myyyyy God, I'd be so pissed.

do you think he's going there to cheat?

Aw shit...if I were you I'd pack his things, leave them on the dooestep and leave a little note saying "enjoy your vacation, better make some plans to stay with your ex..." thats just crossing a line I wont put up with.

whoa id punch him in the dick

he has stuff to do out there. no doubt. but i think its just timing she there at the same time... i dont think hed cheat. but who knows? how would i know forsure? i cant stop him from going...

i'd call him and start reading off those directions to the house, and then be like "have fun deuchbag!"
and hang up  

we live together. hes just out right now. i just wanna freak right now. like im a jelous person and i made the effort to trust him like i do and he just goes off and lies when i give him the trust to go and behave

honestly, if there was nothing to hide, why lie??

thats exactly what i think!!! like why lie? if you wanna hang out with her.cool but dont lie... cause im gonna think the worst

Quoting JackieB:“ honestly, if there was nothing to hide, why lie??”

 
exactly

im sorry.... have u talked to him about it??

hes still out... but you better beleive ill be speaking to him... im gonna ask him one more time if hes meeting up with people out there if he lies again... ill be fucking flipping out.

he wonders why im insecure about him hanging out with girls... its shit like this that makes me never want to leave him with girls. because he lies like there is something to hide         

Good on you darl for standing your ground! I wouldn't put up with that either.. especially when there's a child involved but thats not the point... there's no excuse for lying!

when i asked him once more if he was going to meet up with anyone other than the people hes going with and he said no. and i was like well i know your going to meet up with your ex and he denied it over and over again and i was like stop lying, i know you are and he denied it again...
well long story short we got into it and he then told me he didnt want to tell me since i know this girl and i dislike her. and he didnt want me to be mad that he was going to see her.
i just made it clear you made it worse lying to me and it only made me ten times madder (haha thats not a word) and he appoligized and all. hes doing his "i feel really bad for arguing and such act" and hes sucking up, but im having nothing of it.