re: Still Love My Baby Father

Dont wait. Go on about you life & if someday he wants to come back into your heart make him sweat & work harder than he did the FIRST time he got you. Im not sayin to push him away. But build a wall & if he cares enough . . he'll find a way around it. The more you care . . the less he will. idk if its gonna make 'exactly' make you feel better.

But heres a couple of songs I listen to when im feeling like that:
Mariah Carey - Always be my baby
Jay Z - Soon you'll undersstand
Leona Lewis - Better in Time&& last but not least
Mary J Blige - Not gon' cry && her song Enough Cryin is ALWAYS a great way to finish  

Feel better babe. Its rough. But you'll get through this. Im not expecting you to go & get over him, because I know for a FACT that thats not the easiest thing to do . . but while he's out there worrying about himself. Take care of YOURSELF. Feel better mama.

Quoting Z'TaliYah Patience Bell:“ yes cuz everyone says he loves me not her and he just on a money chase that he is gonna come back when ... [snip!] ... that left me so alone. i still havent seen one thing from him for my child. i have everything. and he hasnt given me nothing.”

I wouldnt wait around on him but I wouldnt shove him away if I wasnt with anyone later when he wanted to come back. All you would do then is make yourself feel bad because you would always be thinkig "what if he is changed" if you never gave him the chance to show it. You definatly deserve a better life then that but no one can say for sure that if you arent with anyone later he wouldnt be a better person because people do change.

Quoting Z'TaliYah Patience Bell:“ Me and my baby father was togetha for 10 months. 2 days after i found out he as cheating and he left ... [snip!] ... or need somthin how can i still love a man like this. he is bipolar so he is even worse. I mean is there any thig i can do”

I think you should you should focus on you and oyur baby. Its his loss sweetheart. I don't wanna hurt your feelings so please don't take this the wrong way!

Quoting Z'TaliYah Patience Bell:“ Me and my baby father was togetha for 10 months. 2 days after i found out he as cheating and he left ... [snip!] ... or need somthin how can i still love a man like this. he is bipolar so he is even worse. I mean is there any thig i can do”

I'am so sorry. I know it is very hard to have someone you love cheat on you, and then leave you. I think it is good if your not calling him. I'am sure you heard it a million times, but with more and more time it will get better. Just be happy that your going to have your baby, and there is no one who you will love more then your baby. And have your friends and family and eventually you will find someone who treats you good, the way you deserve. He didn't respect you, and now he is getting treated bad, he deserves it.

Quoting Amandita 23 more days!:“ I'am so sorry. I know it is very hard to have someone you love cheat on you, and then leave you. I think ... [snip!] ... someone who treats you good, the way you deserve. He didn't respect you, and now he is getting treated bad, he deserves it.”

Yep carmer is a bitch (or this case, a blessing!)

Quoting Z'TaliYah Patience Bell:“ Me and my baby father was togetha for 10 months. 2 days after i found out he as cheating and he left ... [snip!] ... or need somthin how can i still love a man like this. he is bipolar so he is even worse. I mean is there any thig i can do”


Wow its crazy. More and more girls I see on here everyday going thru what I'm going thru. Trust me I know how you feel. My babys dad has cheated on me as well, throughout my whole pregnancy and I just found out like 3 weeks ago. He's got the other girl pregnant too. I'm assuming he's still with her cause he doesn't call me or text me anymore. If I try to call him or text him, he completely ignores me. I miss him so much and wish everything is the way it used to be and we can raise our son together. I still hope for him to turn around and change his ways even tho that's probably never gonna happen. What can u do tho??? Nothing. Just focus on you and your baby, that's what I'm doing. Just sitting here counting my days down til my baby comes. He will be my number 1 once he is here and I know I won't b sitting here bein all depressed over his dad. Good luck to u!!

Quoting ME*[&&baby]:“ Quoting Z'TaliYah Patience Bell:“ Me and my baby father was togetha for 10 months. 2 days after ... [snip!] ... He will be my number 1 once he is here and I know I won't b sitting here bein all depressed over his dad. Good luck to u!!”

Wow darl you poor thing. And i'm proud of you for beliveing that! you or your son don't have to put up with that shit! good luck to you too (and also to Z'TaliYah Patience Bell)

Bruh, thats f'ed up. See men just dont understand. And I know its stressing you because you still love him.. You need to relax and lay off for a minute. He doesnt appreciate you after all you've done and how you've always been there for him. He'll be back. Joy comes in the morning. And a baby is very special. So when he does decide he wants to give you some time. You give him a hard time. Because when the baby comes its all about her. Chill out..God sees alll!