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yeah so i just had my first taste of braxton hicks today. they werent really painful they were some what uncomfortable. i talked to brandon today......  yeah he still doesnt know when he is going to come home he has told me so many dates that i quit believing him. what is a gurl to do when someone lies to you like that? he tried to tell me today not to the baby in daycare while i was at work.......of course im gonna have to get a job cuz he certainly does not send ANY money......he said that he wanted alyssa to stay with his mom. well thats where an issue takes place cuz his mom drinks and smokes like a freight train.....no offense.......she has a sailor mouth like none that i have heard before.....and just isnt a good sitter for alyssa to be with. if she changed her ways and quit drinkin (she use to drop her gurls off for me to watch while she went and got hammered) then it would be fine......but i dont see that happening rite now.    he is making me    very mad.......if any of ya'll have any thing to say about please let me know cuz i just want to know that i am doing the rite thing by putting alyssa in daycare when i get a job.

aww i suffered BH at 24 weeks and FREAKED hahaa...
im sorry about your BD.

Obviously she's better off somewhere else. But most importantly YOU are her mother and YOU know what is best for her. Stand up for her since she cant stand up for herself.

Quoting LizaJane01:“ yeah so i just had my first taste of braxton hicks today. they werent really painful they were some what ... [snip!] ... about please let me know cuz i just want to know that i am doing the rite thing by putting alyssa in daycare when i get a job.”

My daughter's name is Alyssa, too!!

I don't see anything wrong with putting her into daycare if you need to!

where is your boyfriend supposed to be back from?

There is nothing wrong with putting your daughter in daycare if its needed. Your her mother and you know where its safe for her. Why would she want to watch her anyways when she was too drunk to take care of her own girls. Don't feel like your making the wrong choice. Don't let anyone make you second guess what you feel is right!

Quoting LizaJane01:“ yeah so i just had my first taste of braxton hicks today. they werent really painful they were some what ... [snip!] ... about please let me know cuz i just want to know that i am doing the rite thing by putting alyssa in daycare when i get a job.”

my mother in law to be is the same way and my baby will never be left alone with her oe anyone in my family who is the same way

Quoting Nikkii:“ where is your boyfriend supposed to be back from? There is nothing wrong with putting your daughter ... [snip!] ... of her own girls. Don't feel like your making the wrong choice. Don't let anyone make you second guess what you feel is right!”

thanx he is suppossed to be coming back from kentucky but im not sure when or if he really even plans on coming back.