Surrogate Mother

Has anyone ever thought about being a surrogate mom?

I have thought about it once or twice, i think it would be hard giving up a baby. But in the same respect you have to remember that you are not biologically related to the child.

What are your thoughts?

thought about it when im older cause its an amazing gift for someone but then i realized that i would love it too much to just give it away..maybe i could if i loved someone so selflessly that i would wnat them to be happy no matter my pain but i only feel that for my man an he don need a surrogate lol

Yeah i had cause my sister cant have anymore kids and my little sis is having alot of trouble conciving. But they wont let me now as i am high risks.   I thought it would be great to give another person a life i helped bring into this world.

i thought about it once or twice myself, but i decided unless its someone i have known for like, ever, the chances of me going through the pregnancy for someone else, i know it may sound selfish, but its most likely not goin to happen, thats just being blunt honest.

I'd do it in a heartbeat for family or close friends.. Generally speaking I love being pregnant so it's definitely something I would consider to give the same joy of parenthood to a loved one..

Ive thought about it, but im reserving my uterus for my brother and his partner lol

I don't care if I am not biologically related to them, if I were to carry a child I don't think that there is any way I would be able to give them up and watch them be raised by others. It's just not in my nature.

well i thaught about it cuple times too i acculy was gonna go through it once but reambered i wanted one more before i did it for sum one else ...then after this one i'am pg w gave me sever hyperemis and i was hospitalized almost hole 1st trimester then i relized i can't put my body through this again ..... but my reson for doing it was cus i wanted to give the best gift of all thats LIFE !!!!!!! for sum one who never exsperieced a child .....

i t hink for me, itd be what happens to your body physically after you give birth. its not like you just pop out a child an thats it. you bleed for weeks an weeks, you get stretch marks... an i had my son naturally, an vaginally an what if i had to have a C section? i wouldnt want a C section scar for the rest of my life... i dunno. I would love to do it, but there are so many other factors that come to mind

yes. I have offered to be one for my husbands aunt. she had to have a hysterectomy when she was 17. very sad. but she has been very sick lately and they don't know when she will be better. So it will def. be a while until she will consider it again. She and I are very close, andi love her so much and she wants a baby so bad that i will do it for her in a heartbeat.

My boss, Tracey,always tells me that Chris and I make beautiful babies (Can't argue with that, it's so freakin true) and asks when I will have him one to take home. My response is always the same...My children are not puppies or kittens that I can just give away. Once I have a baby it's mine to love and cherish, not to give to someone else. There is no way that I could do it. I would always see that baby as mine, not Tracey's and his partners. I guess that's selfish but it's how I feel.

I have thought recently about USING one. lol. I could never be one though...it would be too hard.

Quoting Jenell:“ I have thought recently about USING one. lol. I could never be one though...it would be too hard.”

hey!! how did your amnio go??

Quoting WiFeY- MoMMy- PReGGo:“ hey!! how did your amnio go??”

it went okay. It hurt but not like I was expecting. I go in to get results on the 18th. So a whole week before I know anything. Thank you for asking  

Quoting Jenell:“ it went okay. It hurt but not like I was expecting. I go in to get results on the 18th. So a whole week before I know anything. Thank you for asking  ”

ill pray all is well!!!!

and your welcome!