re: Stillborn Birth on July 5th

I'm so sorry for your loss! I know there is nothing we can say to make you feel better but we are all here for you.

Im so sorry, you're certainly in my thoughts and prayers.

oh honey I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby boy. 

My heart goes out to you! I'm so sorry for your loss. That happened to my friend and 3 months later she's doing a lot better. But I know it still hurts her.

I am so sorry you are in my prayers. It's not your fault don't blame yourself.

Hun, first i want to say Im so sorry for your loss. Secondly, It is not your fault. Dont blame yourself... I know thats alot easier said then done, but it is honestly not your fault... I have been there and no matter how hard things are right now, they do get better. Slowly but surely they do get better... You will have ups and downs, good days and bad days.

I lost my daughter 2 years ago at 34weeks. When we found out she had passed we opted for every test they offered... Everything came up clean. And when she was delivered the only think wrong (besides the obvious)is that she was underweight. We opted for an autopsy which revieled that she had contracted a common illness that is rare to get while pregnant and even rarer to pass to the baby... It took me over a year to even start moving on.... If you ever want to talk feel free to PM me...

We will be praying for you..stay strong and remember that the Lord doesn't give us anything that we cannot handle.

Hi, I know how you are feeling. I lost my son on May 20, 2008. I was 6 months pregnant and unexpectedly he started to come early and he didn't make it. I got tired of people telling me sorry, so just know that I will be praying for you. I dont know you but I will keep you in my prayers. My husband and I had a hard time for the first month or so, but we made it and its almost been 2 months since the passing of our son Nehemiah. You are not alone. Do not blame yourself for this because it's not your fault, you couldn't control what happened. If you need to talk just private message me okay. I know how hard this is, I am still grieving. God Bless you : )

Quoting swt_mommy:“ My dearest son, Timothy Michael Ho. It was July 5th that I had a doctor's appointment. I mentioned ... [snip!] ... his death. The doctor's say that it's unexplained. Everything seemed normal. I live each day crying. I wonder how can I go on?”

I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you!

I am so sorry for your loss.

Please dont blame yourself, hun. There is NOTHING that you did wrong, and nothing that you could have done to prevent this. I know you cant help but feel that way, I was like that too for a while.

I know it doesnt seem likeit, but it will get easier with time. You will never forget, but sooner or later, you will think of him and smile instead of crying. Just know that your baby is in a better place and know that he has lots of friends to play with! If you ever need to talk, Id be happy to listen. Good luck mama. I know everything will work itself out in the end.

I am so sorry for you loss! Dont blame yourself sweety
*hugs*

Im so sorry. i lost my son last year. he was stillborn, if you need anything let me . my prays are with you

melissa

Quoting swt_mommy:“ My dearest son, Timothy Michael Ho. It was July 5th that I had a doctor's appointment. I mentioned ... [snip!] ... his death. The doctor's say that it's unexplained. Everything seemed normal. I live each day crying. I wonder how can I go on?”

I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I lost my daughter Haley 3-15-06, she was 3-12 and 17 inches long, and beautiful.
It still is hard, some days are easier than others, but I still miss her dearly.
It takes time, let yourself grieve.
Its not your fault. dont blame yourself. Dont do that to yourself!
Im thinking about you!

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Know that no matter what your mind may tell you, it was not, I repeat, not, your fault...

There is nothing you could have done, as awful as it is... But being human, we need someone to blame, and if you aren't big on God then the next person to blame is usually yourself...  

I'm so sorry Mama.. If you have any pictures of your little boy please feel free to share... There is no reason you shouldnt' show little Timothy off to the world...!
And the girls are right, as hard as it is to believe it will get easier... But let it happen in it's own time..


We are all here anytime you need to talk,
- Jess