Help Please.....kinda long

I can't seem to get my ex off my mind. Even after he and his new girlfriend decided to jump me, all I can do is think about him and dream about him. He saw my best friend in Walmart the other day and told her to tell me he wished me the best. I am even looking forward to court so that I can see him. I constantly replay all the things in my mind he said, good and bad. I want to get rid of these thoughts and be able to move on. It bothers me that I have to walk around all day with this guilt. Deep down, I just keep hoping he'll see that he really wants to be a family with me and my baby but I know that if he would fight for this woman over me and my baby, he can't possibly care about me. Anyone know what I should do??

forget his ass. him and his new girlfriend jumped you while you are pregnant with his child. i would kill his ass if that was me

i think you seriously need to forgot his ass he jumped you while you was pregnant do you really want a guy like that round your baby

Quoting ~*~No Matter What~*~:“ I can't seem to get my ex off my mind. Even after he and his new girlfriend decided to jump me, all I ... [snip!] ... know that if he would fight for this woman over me and my baby, he can't possibly care about me. Anyone know what I should do??”

Read the book, He just isnt into you...or something like that! I read it and it makes soooo much sense! Guys are RETARDS! If he wanted you he wouldn't be with the other girl and he wouldn't have jumped you while being pregnant! I have been in your shoes except my ex cheated on me! We were even trying to get pregnant at the time....thank goodness I didn't! He DOES NOT deserve to even be a part of my life now! I wish you the BEST of LUCK and hope you realize that he is NOT the one for you and you DESERVE BETTER!!!!!

he jumped you? yeah, hes a real winner. you dont want someone like that, especially around your child. you are better off and deserve better than that.

Sometimes I just think it;s the fact that I can't win. He has had other girlfriends in the past when we'd have off time but we'd always get back together. This time though, I lost. She's thirty five, with three kids and mentally slow. I just want to know why he would ever choose something like that over me. It makes me feel like I must not be too much for him to pick someone like that over me.

Quoting ~*~No Matter What~*~:“ Sometimes I just think it;s the fact that I can't win. He has had other girlfriends in the past when ... [snip!] ... choose something like that over me. It makes me feel like I must not be too much for him to pick someone like that over me.”

Maybe because he feels he has CONTROL of the situation! And he would go to you just for sex even though he COULDN'T CONTROL you!!! Some men have issues with that! And when they don't feel in control they go somewhere where they can!

Sweetie.. even if he does decide to be a family with you, whose to say he isn't gonna cheat on you.. you need to realize that if he had the balls to help his new girl beat you up while you were pregnant.. with his baby.. then he doesn't give a flying fuck what happens to you or YOUR baby. Trust me.. I've been in a similar situation. You don't need a guy like that in your life.. concentrate on your baby and your health, that's what's important.. not him and his gf. If it's meant to be, nothings gonna stop it.

Quoting ~ BTM ~:“ Maybe because he feels he has CONTROL of the situation! And he would go to you just for sex even though ... [snip!] ... COULDN'T CONTROL you!!! Some men have issues with that! And when they don't feel in control they go somewhere where they can!”

I hope that's it. He told me that he was punishing me and that he wanted me to know that I could be replaced by a mental retard. But the whole beating me up thing took it a little too far. He told me he didn't want to put her through that. It just hurts really bad. It's a constant ache that I can't get rid of no matter how hard I try.

Quoting ~*~No Matter What~*~:“ I hope that's it. He told me that he was punishing me and that he wanted me to know that I could be ... [snip!] ... want to put her through that. It just hurts really bad. It's a constant ache that I can't get rid of no matter how hard I try.”

Girl, you don't need NO MAN to be like that!!!! You DESERVE soooo much better! If he actually LOVED you, he would NEVER say stuff like that to you!!!! Get your butt to court and do what you gotta do and NEVER think about him again!!!!! You DON'T deserve that! NO WOMAN DOES!!!! My BF jokes around and tells me to call him MASTER before he does something for me, but I ALWAYS tell him NEVERMIND I can do it ON MY OWN and DON'T need a master!!!!!! I DON'T deal with that crap!!!! He then starts laughing and does what I asked him to do for me!!!! I DON'T play that game! Your ex is definitely pushing your buttons to the MAX!!! MOVE ON!!!!! You have MORE important things to worry about now.... YOU AND your BABY!!!!!

girl yo baby gonna come out looking just like him

forget about him!!
HE JUMPED YOU!!  why would you want to be with someone who jumped you..
hes not even worth your time let alone thinking about!

Quoting ~Awaiting my 1st~:“ girl yo baby gonna come out looking just like him”

Someone else said that to me last night. lol. As mad as I am with him the baby is gonna look like he spit her out.

Quoting a l e x.c a i l e e:“ forget about him!! HE JUMPED YOU!!  why would you want to be with someone who jumped you.. hes not even worth your time let alone thinking about!”

You are right. Over the past couple of days things have gotten 100% better. I haven't been thinking of him unless I think about how much of an ass he really is.