Had a Stillborn...Want to try again!

I had a stillborn babygirl at 22 weeks. That was almost 9 weeks ago May 12, 2008. I miss mi Ava. But I really want to try again! Do u think 9-10 weeks is to ealy to try again. My fiance and I are ready. We just dont know if we can. If anyone has any advice plz let me know. Thanku

i would ask a doctor...do they know why you had one?

  did the doc tell you to wait?

I think it's too early JMO.

Sorry for your loss.

I believe that you have to wait until you have had a normal cycle.
And you gave birth so you need to wait til your body has recovered and make sure you are mentally right with yourself.

Pm me if you need to talk

To Lisa: I had one period already. At my 6 week appointment they said mi ovaries and everything was perfectly were heathly

Sweety, you need to let yourself heal, a birth at 22 weeks is still a birth!

I'm very sorry for your loss though, if you need to talk, these girls are GREAT. I'm always open for PM's too.

It's ultimatley your choice though, just be careful about things.

Quoting MiniManda1453:“ I had a stillborn babygirl at 22 weeks. That was almost 9 weeks ago May 12, 2008. I miss mi Ava. But ... [snip!] ... to ealy to try again. My fiance and I are ready. We just dont know if we can. If anyone has any advice plz let me know. Thanku”

WOW!!!! Much respect...if I went through that I swear I would go into a deep depression. But, to answer your question I think that would be sometihng to ask your doctor.

I would also like to add that after my first m/c I let myself get pregnant too son, and I love my son to death, but I regret not letting myself heal emotionally.
I still mourn for the loss and being pregnant amplified those feelings. I think I have PPD and sometimes my miscarriages are all I can think about. 22 weeks is a lot harder then my 13 weeks.

Quoting MiniManda1453:“ To Lisa: I had one period already. At my 6 week appointment they said mi ovaries and everything was perfectly were heathly”

Ok do you know why your baby passed away?

And are you clear on why you want so badly to be pregnant again?
Im just worried is all, I have alot ALOT of friends that have had stillborns, so really when we say we are here for you we mean it

See mi aunt told me that god took her away because he knew something bad was gonna happen with her and thats make me feel better.

Quoting MiniManda1453:“ See mi aunt told me that god took her away because he knew something bad was gonna happen with her and thats make me feel better.”

Umm do you believe that?

I know in ways I will always miss my first daughter but its like I do want a baby now and I cant just ignore that. No matter what miss my daughter cant keep me from having a baby. Missing my daughter will always be and not having a baby wont change it

Quoting MiniManda1453:“ See mi aunt told me that god took her away because he knew something bad was gonna happen with her and thats make me feel better.”

But you don't know the medical reason why she didn't go full term. What if whatever happened could happen to this baby too. You need to be clear on that. And, do you just want to be pregnant again to "replace" your loss. And I am sorry for your loss btw

Ok I have no idea how to reply to anyone seperately cuz I have never used those before. My docs do know I had her. I was having cramps all day and I didn't really think of them as anything but they got wicked bad so I went to the hospital and on the way there my water bro so I knew it was to late. I am goin to a specialist. I dont know why and will never know and thats the worst part. I was high-risk tho but everything was fine I had an appointment a week b4 that and everything was pefect. See I read somewhere before u get pregnant again u shud be sure that ur want for a baby overcomes the fear of losing another baby. In a way I do believe god took her from me because something bad was going to happen. I think I want to get pregnant again because at first I was scared and unsure and as the pregnancy progressed I got my self ready and then I lost her and never got the chance to get to hear her cry and reallly know her or what her eye color was or anything. She was 11 inches long and 15 counces. Say I got pregnant on accident again I wud have to deal with it but I am being very careful right now.