this was scary
67 postsposted 9th Jul
So today was very interesting so i have to puppies and thet both love licking ppls faces well me and my brother were just messing around we decided we would well my brother would hold my fiance' down while my puppy licked his face off lol...now we have done this before and its all in fun well while this was happening my fiance' snapped now i have never seen him get super angry but all of a suddon her started yelling and elbowed my brother in his ribs like really hard then got in his face and cussing at him now im freaking out cause he has never done that before but its like the look in his eyes he was going to do something to honeslty hurt my brother if he didnt walk away...now him and my brother have wrestled before and he didnt do it cause it has always been done in fun but tonight is was so different but he tells me that he never does that and he does not know why he did it but it makes me think if he does not know what makes him snap then what is to say if i sat something so bad he hits me or the baby???i really don't kno what to do
quoteI have 1 angel baby & live in Arizona
851 postsposted 9th Jul
Quoting Stephanie & kyle: So today was very interesting so i have to puppies and thet both love licking ppls faces well me and ... [snip!] ... know what makes him snap then what is to say if i sat something so bad he hits me or the baby???i really don't kno what to dono i dont think he is violent....i kinda thought your story was kinda funny..... just give him time he will start to laugh about it 2
I'm due February 19th, have 3 kids & live in Ashville, Ohio
359 postsposted 9th Jul
Has he been abused or forcefully restrained in the past? Maybe he has a touch of claustrophobia he was not aware of?
Honestly, as somebody who doesn't care to be touched or messed with much, I could see my mood changing VERY fast in such a situation. There may be something in his past that triggered his response, or it might have been all of the adrenaline. But I would really just give him the benefit of the doubt if he has never shown aggression like that before.
quoteHonestly, as somebody who doesn't care to be touched or messed with much, I could see my mood changing VERY fast in such a situation. There may be something in his past that triggered his response, or it might have been all of the adrenaline. But I would really just give him the benefit of the doubt if he has never shown aggression like that before.
I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Virginia
posted 9th Jul
Quoting missie1721: no i dont think he is violent....i kinda thought your story was kinda funny..... just give him time he will start to laugh about it 2never said he was violent but thnks for thinking that was funny that was really helpful
I have 1 angel baby & live in Arizona
1002 postsposted 9th Jul
maybe he is bipolar i would look into it that would make him snap like that for no reason
quoteI have 1 child & live in Port Huron, Michigan
posted 9th Jul
Quoting gnome: Has he been abused or forcefully restrained in the past? Maybe he has a touch of claustrophobia he was ... [snip!] ... of the adrenaline. But I would really just give him the benefit of the doubt if he has never shown aggression like that before.
he has a past everyone does now its never happened to me but he has snapped like that before we even met and mostly with his brothers or family..he knows he can't touch me his parents and pretty much everyone has told him the consequences of is actions are always going to come back to bit you in the ass if you understand what i mean
I have 1 angel baby & live in Arizona
5717 postsposted 9th Jul
Quoting Marissa Marie: how long have you known him??a year but only dating 9 months
I have 1 angel baby & live in Arizona
posted 9th Jul
thats not very long... i dont want to freak you out but my mom dated a guy for over a year before she realized he was very abusive.
quoteI have 1 child & live in Worcester, Massachusetts
posted 9th Jul
Quoting Marissa Marie: thats not very long... i dont want to freak you out but my mom dated a guy for over a year before she realized he was very abusive.i just can't tell right now i hope it doesn't turn into anything serious
I have 1 angel baby & live in Arizona
250 postsposted 9th Jul
Quoting Stephanie & kyle: i just can't tell right now i hope it doesn't turn into anything serious
Honestly maybe he doesnt like being restrained! I know i am not violent or abbusive but i hate being tickled and i will get angry and start swing and cussing my husband has learned never to tickle me!! jsut something people dont't like
I have 3 kids & live in Corpus Christi, Texas
2946 postsposted 9th Jul
Quoting Jen paz: Honestly maybe he doesnt like being restrained! I know i am not violent or abbusive but i hate being ... [snip!] ... and i will get angry and start swing and cussing my husband has learned never to tickle me!! jsut something people dont't likeI'm the same. If someone's holding me down doing something that I don't want done, I'll punch, scream, scratch...whatever it takes to get them to stop. I think your best solution would be to not restrain him like that and then it probably won't happen again.
I'm due November 27th (a boy) & live in Bundaberg, Australia
posted 9th Jul
Quoting lindsey09: I'm the same. If someone's holding me down doing something that I don't want done, I'll punch, scream, ... [snip!] ... to get them to stop. I think your best solution would be to not restrain him like that and then it probably won't happen again.EXACTLY!
I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Virginia
281 postsposted 10th Jul
I agree about the restraining thing. I think it was something that he just didn't like. I can get this way too when someone does something to me that I feel is a violation of my personal space. lol If this is the only angry situation you have seen I wouldn't worry just don't do anything like that to him again. I would worry if you are sitting around and he goes off for no reason at all.
quoteI'm due December 17th (a girl), have 2 kids & live in Texas
598 postsposted 10th Jul
Quoting Stephanie & kyle: So today was very interesting so i have to puppies and thet both love licking ppls faces well me and ... [snip!] ... know what makes him snap then what is to say if i sat something so bad he hits me or the baby???i really don't kno what to do
I don't think you anything to worry about.
Being held down so a dog can lick your face is not a joyous moment in any way.
My ex held me down so that his two dogs could lick my face, and I fucking lost it, I am muchweaker than him, so I couldn't get up but I snapped and honestlywanted to stab his arse at that moment.
But I, personally, hate any animal licking my face, it's disgusting. It even grosses me out to see others let an animal lick their face.
I have 1 child & live in Australia
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