re: Help a girl out.

Quoting dea:“ "Everytime he walks by me, he'll slap my ass or grab my boobs or poke at my vajayjay. Sweet, yes? Maybe ... [snip!] ... in the mood. and he thinks all i want is sex. which isnt true. im just more sexual than he is, and im addicted to sex. no joke.”

My BF is always the one grabbing me, but I'm the one who always wants the sex. He'll grope me and then walk away, while I'm left standing there or lying there, like, um, you forgot to take your pants off for me. LOL If I had it my way, we'd have sex at least once a day. In actuality, we are down to once a week (although it's been about 2 weeks now I think because we've been fighting).

Quoting NJCutie:“ My BF is always the one grabbing me, but I'm the one who always wants the sex. He'll grope me and then ... [snip!] ... a day. In actuality, we are down to once a week (although it's been about 2 weeks now I think because we've been fighting).”

yeah sometimes my husband will mess around with me and up and leave. im like "WHAT?! you better finish what you started"

we only have sex about 3-4 times a week or like every other day or two. he has PTSD and we think that has something to do with him not being as sexual.

if i had it my way, we'd be doing it 5 times a day! lol

Quoting dea:“ yeah sometimes my husband will mess around with me and up and leave. im like "WHAT?! you better finish ... [snip!] ... and we think that has something to do with him not being as sexual. if i had it my way, we'd be doing it 5 times a day! lol”

I'm sorry that hubby suffers from PTSD...

My BF suffers from Prick Syndrome. Remission lasts about a week or so before it flares up again and it lasts up to three weeks.

Quoting NJCutie:“ I'm sorry that hubby suffers from PTSD... My BF suffers from Prick Syndrome. Remission lasts about a week or so before it flares up again and it lasts up to three weeks.”

lol

Maybe I'm an idiot... but...

What's PTSD?

Post traumatic stress disorder. Very common for military.

denise, i have the same problem.. although i actually never recovered my sex drive. i am starting to think that it has to do with breastfeeding and perhaps my thyroid. i still have hot flashes and fun stuff like that so i am certain that not all is well with my hormones.

Wow, your hubby sounds JUST like my husband, like his twin! Weird! He does the same thing to me! I always tell him how I am NOT a piece of meat! It seems like all he wants is sex and I too am having a hard time trying to get back into the mood! Noah is 5 months old now and I still have NO drive! Sometimes I am randy but it's miserably uncomfortable!

Quoting Rach Lynn:“ Wow, your hubby sounds JUST like my husband, like his twin! Weird! He does the same thing to me! I always ... [snip!] ... back into the mood! Noah is 5 months old now and I still have NO drive! Sometimes I am randy but it's miserably uncomfortable!”

It is still uncomfortable for me, too. Everytime he "puts it in", it hits the scar tissue from my episiotomy. And whenever I'm in the mood, he's not home because it's usually for about 5 minutes in the middle of the day. Other than that, I'm good without penis for right now.

Bittermelon, hormones are a bitch.  

Quoting Mama Denise:“ My daughter is four months old. At first, having "normal" sex was great(meaning, non-preggo-sex). I couldn't ... [snip!] ... him. That's all changed and he hates it. How can Stella get her groove back? Any one else experience this? Is it all me?”

I can totally relate to this. My daughter is just getting into a schedule as well, and I'm still getting the hang of mommyhood. My days are loooong and tiring, and at the end of the day when Julia goes to bed, all I want to do is lay on the sofa. watch tv, and go on BG...nothing that requires too much energy.
My hubby is the same way...he'll grab a tit, or just drop stupid sexual innuendos. Or he'll ask "Is it mommy-daddy time?" Um....no, it's simply just mommy time. My sex drive is pretty much non-existant, and i actually get mad at him for wanting a piece. I know he can't help it, but I just wish he'd back off sometimes...or let me initiate things...When I want it...he'll be the first to know.