I really don't see what's wrong with it. I don't think I would bury a miscarried baby that early on but I would probably do something to memorialize the life lost.

Quoting ~Terra~ CowgirlUP:“ Yes yes. I know all about mult choice. My nursing exams were hard as shit and if I didnt have multiple ... [snip!] ... a distractor and then the last one is the right one. If you can determine which two are wrong first, you will do great!!!!!!!!!”

yep. that's the one thing that's keeping me from going insane. I've pretty much got a 50 50 chance. LOL Wanna know about your insurance.........ask me in a month! I won't want to think about it for at least that long.  

I don't think it's weird.

My friend miscarried when she was pregnant, and she said she had to take the baby to the doctor so they could run tests to figure out why she miscarried. You can actually keep your baby and bury it?

Quoting OzMum2B:“ I disagree, an embryo at 6 weeks is definately more than just a blood clot as shown in this picture **WARNING ... [snip!] ... I don't think there is anything wrong with her wanting to bury the embryo, it's not something I would personally do though.”

First off to above poster....that embryo is not a 6 week old baby.

2nd of off I am going through a loss of a baby right now....I found out today at 11 weeks and 5 days that my baby didnt have a heartbeat but my husband says he seen them measure the baby at 9 weeks 3 days.....I could never dig my baby out of blood to go bury it in the back yard....a cat would probably dig it up and eat it, and it would be better off in the toilet in that case imo. I cant even imagine even thinking about bury a blood clot that may be my baby. I just want this all to be over with now.

Also on the person that buried their baby in their backyard.....I think that is weird too. I had a stillborn at 35 weeks and could NEVER EVER imagine burrying her in my backyard....I HAD to have a proper funeral for her. If I ever deliver a baby stillborn....he/she will get a proper burial!!! If you moved could you imagine having to dig the baby up or leaving it there? I could never do that. They have cemetarys that will bury a baby for free in the baby section. So there is no excuse not to bury your baby properly....so I think you are insane if you bury it in your backyard, unless you have a family cemetary there. JMO

I dont think it's weird....Maybe to her it's even a religious thing?

Quoting Wallah:“ I dont think it's weird....Maybe to her it's even a religious thing?”

Ha, omg if you only knew.

Christy, Hang in there babe. We all are praying for you!

Well since most of the votes are in I'm going to put out my opinion. I think it was very weird and the girl in question has many issues. She "claimed" to have buried the remains in a box and then dug it up when she moved. I can totally understand planting a special plant or having a plaque or something made. Also this girl milks sympathy and deceives people into thinking she was much farther along. She is not honest about her losses unless called out. She is rude to those who lost children when they were much farther along. She claimes that losing a baby at 33 weeks is the same as 7 weeks. It's not. Yes it's sad but at 7 weeks it's more of a disapointment and what could have been. At 33 weeks it was a reality, a real live baby that you had prepared a nursery for, knew the sex and named. Basically if you want to remember your child that way go for it. But you need to actually start to move on for it to be an effictive healing tool. No matter the circumstances I still think it's a very strange thing to do.

Quoting Ari&J'sMommy:“ First off to above poster....that embryo is not a 6 week old baby. 2nd of off I am going through ... [snip!] ... your baby properly....so I think you are insane if you bury it in your backyard, unless you have a family cemetary there. JMO”

at that time, my friend didn't know that her mom had done that, she was very ill and hated the world...her mom did it on her own and never told my friend that she had done it...her sister was the one who told my friend that is what their mom had done...i'm sure if she was in the right frame of mind, she would have done the proper thing...her mom put a flower garden where she buried him too..

i don't think they knew of any cemetarys like that..i've never heard of it either..i know you can get help from the trustee, but i'm not sure if they would do it in a pregnancy that isn't legally "viable"..here it is 28 wks to be considered viable..they are changing that law (i hope)...cause a few months ago a man shot a bank teller who was pregnant w/ twins and they both passed and they couldn't charge him with homicide cause she was only 5 months..he got charged with fetucide..BS if u ask me..they should hang his ass, she was obviously showing and they said he aimed at her belly on purpose..

Quoting jenni1128:“ If it is something that helps the person deal with what has happened then i see no prob with it.”

agreed, while they wouldn't be able to bury it in a cemetery obviously, somewhere for themselves to remember would work if thats what they want. I know if you have a still born some cemeteries will donate a coffin,. They did for my little sister but she died on her due date so its a lot different

Quoting ~Terra~ CowgirlUP:“ Apparently you havent been in TDC following the mafia ladies and this person we are referring to. ... [snip!] ... it weird. I KNOW people are free to do what they want and need to do to make them feel better. Thats not what I asked.”

Now that I know who this is about, heh, I can't say I'm surprised. She's an odd one.

C.

Quoting Ari&J'sMommy:“ First off to above poster....that embryo is not a 6 week old baby. 2nd of off I am going through ... [snip!] ... your baby properly....so I think you are insane if you bury it in your backyard, unless you have a family cemetary there. JMO”

Christy...... I'm so sorry.  

Quoting God:“ Now that I know who this is about, heh, I can't say I'm surprised. She's an odd one. C.”

yeah...not suprised.  

Quoting ~Terra~ CowgirlUP:“ Ok ladies, a few of us are being called "weird" because we think that another young woman is "weird" ... [snip!] ... do you think it's weird to bury an embryo in the ground after a miscarraige that occurs early on during pregnancy? ~Terra”

Yes. Why bury a grain of rice? And who's to say you've caught the grain of rice and not just your uteran lining?

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