Burying an embryo after miscarriage
re: Burying an embryo after miscarriage
8878 postsposted 9th Jul
Quoting Monkyn&Coco'sMama (HippyB: i don't go to tdc unless given a link I'm sorry if she has been less than loving towards you ladies. ... [snip!] ... of you but, don't know if fighting fire w/fire is the way to go about it. no offense taken. this just caught me off guard.
Sorry mama. I'd give ya the link, butyou'd be here all night reading it. It's over 1100 pages.
I'm due May 30th (a boy), have 2 angel babies & live in Watsontown, Pennsylvania
21620 postsposted 9th Jul
Quoting ~Terra~ CowgirlUP: Sorry mama. I'd give ya the link, butyou'd be here all night reading it. It's over 1100 pages.
OH! I know who it is.... lol...
I have 1 child & 4 angel babies & live in Clearlake, California
posted 9th Jul
Quoting Tara Maureen: OH! I know who it is.... lol...
Not saying a word. lol
I'm due May 30th (a boy), have 2 angel babies & live in Watsontown, Pennsylvania
18593 postsposted 9th Jul
Quoting ~Terra~ CowgirlUP: Sorry mama. I'd give ya the link, butyou'd be here all night reading it. It's over 1100 pages.
np. i have my texas property and casualty ins license exam on friday. i have a ton of studying to do tonight (procrastinating big time right now)
I have 2 kids & live in Texas
posted 9th Jul
Quoting Monkyn&Coco'sMama (HippyB: np. i have my texas property and casualty ins license exam on friday. i have a ton of studying to do tonight (procrastinating big time right now)
Good luck with that. I did alot of studying myself tonight. Just started an online class on Monday and I'll be ready to take the final by the end of the week!
I'm due May 30th (a boy), have 2 angel babies & live in Watsontown, Pennsylvania
posted 9th Jul
Quoting ~Terra~ CowgirlUP: Not saying a word. lol
You're right, though. That girl has some serious issues...
I have 1 child & 4 angel babies & live in Clearlake, California
posted 9th Jul
Quoting ~Terra~ CowgirlUP: Good luck with that. I did alot of studying myself tonight. Just started an online class on Monday and I'll be ready to take the final by the end of the week!
thank you. please keep your fingers crossed. i'm stressing a bit. thank god for multipule choice!
I have 2 kids & live in Texas
33462 postsposted 9th Jul
Fucking weird.
Who digs a blood clot out of the toilet for that?
Seriously. That's what it is at that "age"
quoteWho digs a blood clot out of the toilet for that?
Seriously. That's what it is at that "age"
I have 4 kids & live in Thailand
posted 9th Jul
Quoting Monkyn&Coco'sMama (HippyB: thank you. please keep your fingers crossed. i'm stressing a bit. thank god for multipule choice!
Yes yes. I know all about mult choice. My nursing exams were hard as shit and if I didnt have multiple choice I wouldnt have made it this far.
Just remember out of the 4 questions TWO are usually always wrong. Out of the other two questions, one of them may seem right but it will be a distractor and then the last one is the right one. If you can determine which two are wrong first, you will do great!!!!!!!!!
I'm due May 30th (a boy), have 2 angel babies & live in Watsontown, Pennsylvania
16555 postsposted 9th Jul
Quoting ~Terra~ CowgirlUP: Ok ladies, a few of us are being called "weird" because we think that another young woman is "weird" ... [snip!] ... do you think it's weird to bury an embryo in the ground after a miscarraige that occurs early on during pregnancy? ~TerraI don't think its weird. Everyone has their own way of grieving, if it helped her than I say it was a good idea. Honestly tho, its so hard to tell what is what duringa miscarriage at that age so I'm kind of iffy on the whole thing. If they were removed by D&C most of the time the embryo is sent to pathology for disection and testing to see what was wrong. We had my 17 week twins cremated (sp?) but before 10 weeks it is so small that I think you would have a hard time distinguishing what to look for unless you actually know what to look for ya know?! Are we sure she's telling the truth? Maybe she just burried boxes to remind her not actual embryos?
I have 3 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Woodinville, Washington
24757 postsposted 9th Jul
Quoting God: Well, if that's what a person needs to do to deal, more power to them. It's not something I would do, ... [snip!] ... of the rest. I find it personally weird, but I wouldn't necessarily say I think anyone else was weird for doing so. C.
I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Tulsa, Oklahoma
1741 postsposted 9th Jul
ok so this is a really sad story that happened, but i wanted to warn all beforehand
..i had a friend who miscarried at like 5 mos. but the baby stopped growing at 4 and they sent her home, well that night she passed the baby into the toilet...she got in the tub and her mom got the baby out, put it in a bag, not knowing it had a hole in it and the baby fell back in after she already hit the flush handle...she had to call the roto-rooter guy to get it out..he almost called the cops, but her mom told him what happened and even showed him the papers...well my friend's mom buried the baby in the back yard..i think i would have buried the baby too...oh and the hospital wouldn't tell her the sex(she really didn't wanna know anyway)because she would have to have a funeral (death certificate, burial/cremation and all that comes w/ it)all(by state law)...but she saw that the baby was a boy...
quote..i had a friend who miscarried at like 5 mos. but the baby stopped growing at 4 and they sent her home, well that night she passed the baby into the toilet...she got in the tub and her mom got the baby out, put it in a bag, not knowing it had a hole in it and the baby fell back in after she already hit the flush handle...she had to call the roto-rooter guy to get it out..he almost called the cops, but her mom told him what happened and even showed him the papers...well my friend's mom buried the baby in the back yard..i think i would have buried the baby too...oh and the hospital wouldn't tell her the sex(she really didn't wanna know anyway)because she would have to have a funeral (death certificate, burial/cremation and all that comes w/ it)all(by state law)...but she saw that the baby was a boy...
I have 3 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Indiana
3190 postsposted 9th Jul
Quoting ~Mommy of 3~: ok so this is a really sad story that happened, but i wanted to warn all beforehand ..i had a friend ... [snip!] ... (death certificate, burial/cremation and all that comes w/ it)all(by state law)...but she saw that the baby was a boy...
That is so sad. I am sorry for your friends loss.
I have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Florida
posted 9th Jul
sorry..forgot to add...i know my friend was further along but if she weren't i still don't think her mom would have been weird...so no it isn't weird..it is still that person's baby no matter how small....i personally didn't do it when i had my m/c's but everyone greives differently.
quoteI have 3 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Indiana
posted 9th Jul
Quoting MeghanK: That is so sad. I am sorry for your friends loss.
yea it still eats at her..she still mourns for him and for her, knowing it was a boy, made it worse, she rejected the idea of having another girl, but now loves her to death...but she will be so upset if she never gets her boy.
I have 3 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Indiana
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