re: babies daddy not her husband.

Quoting brookenicole:“ so to answer the question....”

I think the answer to the question is she would be very stupid to try that. They were dumb enough in the first place to get married under false pretenses.

Quoting 6 wks 5 days left:“ ifshe doesnt put her husbands name on it she willnot be covered under tricare ( his insurance) i have ... [snip!] ... known ppl to do that and adultry is frowned upon big time in the military doesnt matter if it was a "contract marriage" or not”

That isn't true I don't think... I believe that regardless of whatever if their "married" tri-care has to cover them no matter what even if they are some whore bag that got pregnany by some other man.

Quoting Toby's mamma:“ LOL I went through something similar. *** tell her THIS: when she is ready to do the birth cert, do ... [snip!] ... (2nd time around) if I could just not mention that I'm married. So, that is what I did and we didnt have a problem after that.”

yaeh I mentioned that to her because I thought thats what they would do. But she also said I guess she could leave it blank and just add his name later on?? or something. i dunno.

Quoting Jessica [Slvrmoon]:“ Well apparently they do, because it's happened. I'd say if she's not living with him and pregnant with another man's child...that would be some great proof right there!”

Exactly.

And, maybe I got this from TV, but during investigations to determine if someone got married just for the green card, don't the investigators do interviews to see how much each person knows about the other in order to see if they really have a genuine relationship? I bet the military would do something like that, as well.

Quoting Cas13104:“ That isn't true I don't think... I believe that regardless of whatever if their "married" tri-care has ... [snip!] ... their "married" tri-care has to cover them no matter what even if they are some whore bag that got pregnany by some other man.”

i just know that when my sil had my niece from another man but her n my brother got married b4 she was born tricare told them that unless his name is on the BC than they dont have to cover them since they are covered under the service memeber ss #

Quoting 6 wks 5 days left:“ i just know that when my sil had my niece from another man but her n my brother got married b4 she ... [snip!] ... them that unless his name is on the BC than they dont have to cover them since they are covered under the service memeber ss #”

Hm... I don't know. I could be wrong. But I don't have to worry about anything like this.

Quoting Cas13104:“ Hm... I don't know. I could be wrong. But I don't have to worry about anything like this.”

lol me either so im not worried about it i still dont understand what i have to do after shes born do you know? my hubbys deployed soi have to do it all

Quoting RadMom:“ Exactly. And, maybe I got this from TV, but during investigations to determine if someone got married ... [snip!] ... the other in order to see if they really have a genuine relationship? I bet the military would do something like that, as well.”

yes you are correct. My friend married a friend so she could get a green card.   They had to have wedding photographs and pictures of them together. They had multiple interviews to show that they really knew each other. They had to prove that they lived together. All kinds of stuff....

Quoting Cas13104:“ Hm... I don't know. I could be wrong. But I don't have to worry about anything like this.”

I'm glad I don't either. The man I will marry will be Jeff, the one that got me pregnant. I would never screw people over purposely. That's just ridiculous.

Quoting Bee's Mommie:“ Actually because he is in the army, she could be in BIG trouble for doing this. I know a girl who is ... [snip!] ... divorced right away and married the child's father so she didn't get in too much trouble. Scamming the army is a big no no.”

AGREED!

Quoting WAiTiNG FOR HiM!:“ maybe so. but no one has any way of proving that...”

The Department of Homeland Security does it, I'm quite sure the military could aswell if given a reason to.

Quoting WAiTiNG FOR HiM!:“ Okay so my friend just found out she is pregnant with her 1st kid. She is with her babies daddy and theyve ... [snip!] ... could put her boyfriend...the real babies daddy. I told her I honestly had no clue but I bet you guys would have the answer!!”

wow thats stupid I believe that is fraud

in massachusetts its assumed the husbands unless there is a filed denial of the child... then you would be allowed to put whoever on the cert... crazy huh?

Quoting 6 wks 5 days left:“ lol me either so im not worried about it i still dont understand what i have to do after shes born do you know? my hubbys deployed soi have to do it all”

Elaborate a little more... I'm alittle confused, lol.

Quoting WAiTiNG FOR HiM!:“ yaeh I mentioned that to her because I thought thats what they would do. But she also said I guess she could leave it blank and just add his name later on?? or something. i dunno.”

I replied to your post. I think it's on the second page, it's true. She will get in trouble, and so will he for trying to scam the military and insurance companies aren't so nice and give away money and healthcare to anyone. If they cover it and it isn't his child they'll have to pay it all back. And you can't just "fill it in" later. I'm pretty sure she has to go through court, paternity tests and such.