so me and my ex broke up and im preg and about to have the baby but i had sex with some1 else...and when he(me ex)asked i told him straight that i did and he flipped out sayin thats it's gross and i shouldn't of done it when i was preg with his kid then he went and asked a few of his "friends" and they all sed the same..i dont see anything wrong with it cuz it's my body but now i dont know...was it wrong for me to do that or should i just forgetwhat him and hisfriends think

Did you have unprotected sex or use a condom?

I personally would not have had sex with someone while pregnant and single.

I think there is no problem with it as long as you are in a relationship and have been for a while. A good friend of mine was abandoned by her sons father, and at 5 months met a good guy. They had sex... i didnt see a problem with it. Her son is now 18 months and she and the new guy are getting married in September.

If you guys are not together then you can have sex with who you want. But once the baby comes that is a whole new story. You have to put the baby first and your wants on the back burner. So that you don't have guys coming in and out of the babys life. I was a single mom for a long while and it was hard but you don't need to have ppl around your child untill well established not a couple weeks.

It sucks but can be done.

but back to sex while pregnant. I don't see a problem with it personally.

Quoting **ChEeKy MoNkEy**:“ so me and my ex broke up and im preg and about to have the baby but i had sex with some1 else...and when ... [snip!] ... it cuz it's my body but now i dont know...was it wrong for me to do that or should i just forgetwhat him and hisfriends think”

MY HONEST OPINION I THINK IT IS NASTY FOR GIRLS TO HAVE SEX WITH OTHER MEN OTHER THEN THE BABIES FATHER BUT THATS JUST ME.. IF YOU DO NOT THINK THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT THEN THATS YOU.. BUT I AGREE WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND ON THIS ONE! IF I WANTED SEX THAT BAD EVEN IF ME AND MY EX WERE BROKEN UP I WOULD JUST HAVE SEX WITH HIM CUZ HE'S THE FATHER OF MY CHILD!..

Quoting Miriame:“ MY HONEST OPINION I THINK IT IS NASTY FOR GIRLS TO HAVE SEX WITH OTHER MEN OTHER THEN THE BABIES FATHER ... [snip!] ... IF I WANTED SEX THAT BAD EVEN IF ME AND MY EX WERE BROKEN UP I WOULD JUST HAVE SEX WITH HIM CUZ HE'S THE FATHER OF MY CHILD!..”

that doesnt make any sense... if he didnt want her sleeping with someone else he shouldnt have left...

Quoting Azar mamma:“ If you guys are not together then you can have sex with who you want. But once the baby comes that is ... [snip!] ... not a couple weeks. It sucks but can be done. but back to sex while pregnant. I don't see a problem with it personally.”

I AGREE WITH PART OF WHAT YOUR SAYING.. I DO NOT AGREE WITH HER HAVING SEX WHOM EVER SHE WANTS.. CUZ JUST ANOTHER MAN WOULD NOT CARE IF THEY HURT HER WHILE HAVING SEX... BUT I DO AGREE WITH THE SECOND PART OF WHAT YOU SAID

Quoting WiFeY- MoMMy- PReGGo:“ that doesnt make any sense... if he didnt want her sleeping with someone else he shouldnt have left...”

I was thinking that same thing.
Seems like you would be getting in a horrible cycle to just keep getting hurt by this guy by using him for sex.

I wouldn't do it.  Did you use a condom?  My concern would be that when you are pregnant, you get an STD screen..if you then are introducing a new sexual partner, the STD screen becomes null & void, I would think.  I just personally would not feel right doing that, however if you are using a condom and being careful about it then I guess it is just a personal decision (voted gross, though, just for my own personal preference).  

Quoting merbobear:“ I wouldn't do it. Did you use a condom? My concern would be that when you are pregnant, you get an ... [snip!] ... careful about it then I guess it is just a personal decision (voted gross, though, just for my own personal preference).  ”

That is why I asked that question.

Quoting WiFeY- MoMMy- PReGGo:“ that doesnt make any sense... if he didnt want her sleeping with someone else he shouldnt have left...”

YES IT DOES MAKE SENSE SO IF A GUY SAYS IF I LEAVE THEN U HAVE TO JUMP OFF OF A BRIDGE SO THE SECOND HE LEAVES YOUR GONNA JUMP.. NO! THAT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE JUST BECAUSE HE LEFT DOESN'T MEAN SHE HAS TOHAVE SEX WITH OTHER MEN.. YOU HAVE TO ALSO THINK SHE IS PREGNANT ITS NOT JUST ON REGULAR TERMS LIKE WHEN YOU BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE THEN U GO AND HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE ITS TOTALLY DIFFERENT RIGHT NOW!

there is nothing wrong with it cuz i've done it myself. i was single at 3 mo and had sex but used protection so the baby wouldnt catch anything. i think the daddy is just mad that you didnt try him first

Quoting ♥mommy of Lorelai:“ That is why I asked that question.”

 Yup, I figured that.  I probably should have waited to vote until I found out the answer, but I'm impatient and I should be getting ready for work...procrastination!

Quoting Azar mamma:“ I was thinking that same thing. Seems like you would be getting in a horrible cycle to just keep getting hurt by this guy by using him for sex.”

yea, that and the fact that because he left she has to suffer?? Come on, i dont know about you ladies but i wanted sex a LOT more when i was preggo than when i wasnt...