Quoting merbobear:“ I wouldn't do it. Did you use a condom? My concern would be that when you are pregnant, you get an ... [snip!] ... careful about it then I guess it is just a personal decision (voted gross, though, just for my own personal preference).  ”

Good Point!!

I think that it's ok as long as it was'nt a one night stand type of deal.

Quoting Miriame:“ YES IT DOES MAKE SENSE SO IF A GUY SAYS IF I LEAVE THEN U HAVE TO JUMP OFF OF A BRIDGE SO THE SECOND ... [snip!] ... ON REGULAR TERMS LIKE WHEN YOU BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE THEN U GO AND HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE ITS TOTALLY DIFFERENT RIGHT NOW!”

 Can you tone it down w/ the caps lock please?  Thanks  

Quoting merbobear:“ I wouldn't do it. Did you use a condom? My concern would be that when you are pregnant, you get an ... [snip!] ... careful about it then I guess it is just a personal decision (voted gross, though, just for my own personal preference).  ”

I AGREE WITH YOU

Quoting Miriame:“ YES IT DOES MAKE SENSE SO IF A GUY SAYS IF I LEAVE THEN U HAVE TO JUMP OFF OF A BRIDGE SO THE SECOND ... [snip!] ... ON REGULAR TERMS LIKE WHEN YOU BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE THEN U GO AND HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE ITS TOTALLY DIFFERENT RIGHT NOW!”

we do not have the whole story either.

She could have been dating the guy. She might have broken up with him months ago. We don't know it all

I think it's kinda gross because that person could have something to harm you and your baby! Your putting baby at risk to! First rule of motherhood is baby comes first not you! I hope everything is ok with you and baby! I would let you ob know so she can run some tests for you

Quoting Azar mamma:“ we do not have the whole story either. She could have been dating the guy. She might have broken up with him months ago. We don't know it all”

IT TRULY DOESN'T MATTER WHAT GUY IT IS.. IF ITS NOT THE FATHER OF THE CHILD THEN (IN MY OPINION) DONT HAVE SEX WITH HIM FOR THE EXACT REASON OF WHAT merbobear STATED..

I think if the dad cared that much he wouldn't have left you, he's just jealous! It's your decision I've never been in yours shoes, so I can't say what I would do, because I don't know, if your ok with it, than be ok with it and don't let someone else especially a man that walked out on you while you were carrying his child make you feel bad about a decision you made, obviously he's not feeling too bad on walking out on you and his child!

Quoting Miriame:“ YES IT DOES MAKE SENSE SO IF A GUY SAYS IF I LEAVE THEN U HAVE TO JUMP OFF OF A BRIDGE SO THE SECOND ... [snip!] ... ON REGULAR TERMS LIKE WHEN YOU BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE THEN U GO AND HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE ITS TOTALLY DIFFERENT RIGHT NOW!”

ok that REALLY didnt make sense...

like i said, she shouldnt have to suffer just because he couldnt hack it for nine months... im not syaing have sex with lots of other men, but if she finds a good guy and they are together for awhile then i see no problem with it...

Quoting Miriame:“ IT TRULY DOESN'T MATTER WHAT GUY IT IS.. IF ITS NOT THE FATHER OF THE CHILD THEN (IN MY OPINION) DONT HAVE SEX WITH HIM FOR THE EXACT REASON OF WHAT merbobear STATED..”

ok so if she broke up with him when she was 2 months pregnant and been dating this guy for the past 6 months and they are oving forward with their life together and making plans to do that it is wrong to have sex?

We have no idea of the story .

Quoting merbobear:“ Can you tone it down w/ the caps lock please? Thanks  ”

SORRY I WENT THROUGH THIS ALL YESTERDAY EVERYONE THAT CAN READ THIS IN HERE PLEASE I AM NOT YELLING IT IS JUST THE WAY I LIKE TO WRITE WHEN I AM USING THE COMPUTER.. TO ME IT DOESN'T MATTER SORRY IF IT IS BOTHERING YOU BUT I LIKE USING CAPS NOT LOWER CASE ON THE COMPUTER I ALWAYS HAVE.. SO SORRY

thanks guys...it was just a once off and i used protection i kinda only did it because he was goin on about the girls he had hooked up with since we broke up and i was feeling like shit i just wanted to know that at least some1 else though i was good enough to sleep with..but now im upsetbecause i feel like shit for doin itand i didnt want that im just sick of feeling like he is the only person that would want me...but yea i'll stop dribbling shit now...thanks

Quoting Danielle Craig:“ I think if the dad cared that much he wouldn't have left you, he's just jealous! It's your decision I've ... [snip!] ... his child make you feel bad about a decision you made, obviously he's not feeling too bad on walking out on you and his child!”

hey hotty!

Quoting Miriame:“ MY HONEST OPINION I THINK IT IS NASTY FOR GIRLS TO HAVE SEX WITH OTHER MEN OTHER THEN THE BABIES FATHER ... [snip!] ... IF I WANTED SEX THAT BAD EVEN IF ME AND MY EX WERE BROKEN UP I WOULD JUST HAVE SEX WITH HIM CUZ HE'S THE FATHER OF MY CHILD!..”

STOP TYPING IN CAPS!!!!

Quoting Miriame:“ SORRY I WENT THROUGH THIS ALL YESTERDAY EVERYONE THAT CAN READ THIS IN HERE PLEASE I AM NOT YELLING ... [snip!] ... ME IT DOESN'T MATTER SORRY IF IT IS BOTHERING YOU BUT I LIKE USING CAPS NOT LOWER CASE ON THE COMPUTER I ALWAYS HAVE.. SO SORRY”

THEN DON'T TALK TO US!!!!!!!