Venting about BD

UH I AM SO UPSET RIGHT NOW I FEEL LIKE I DO EVERYTHING and i feel like this even b4 i was pregnant...i ask him to do a simple thing like make dinner and he tells me well its only going to be on his time...nothing is ever on my time...but of cousre he will always have time to play video games its so fucking annyoing (sorry)so again i am stuck with it...i just want a day where i can relax some days i feel as if its all a joke to him

Join the club...try going on strike. He'll start to miss how things are and maybe take a change. Or when you clean, onlypick up your messes. He will eventually miss a nice tidy house.

Quoting Allison24:“ Join the club...try going on strike. He'll start to miss how things are and maybe take a change. Or when you clean, onlypick up your messes. He will eventually miss a nice tidy house.”

ha i hope that could work ppl just keep telling me to wait till the baby is born things will change haha that so far away fomr now there is only so much onme can handle

My boyfriend is the same way. We both work during the day and when we come home I clean and he lays down. Granted he does more manual labor than I do, it would be nice for himto do the dishes more or...anything at all  . (I can't complain too too much though cause I have a year vacation from cleaning the cat box). Im thinking once I get bigger, he will help out more. Or...at least I hope!

Quoting Allison24:“ My boyfriend is the same way. We both work during the day and when we come home I clean and he lays down. ... [snip!] ... I have a year vacation from cleaning the cat box). Im thinking once I get bigger, he will help out more. Or...at least I hope!”

i just hate it cause i clean i cook i wash clothes i buy stuff i do EVERYTHING i just want it to be fair cause i honeslty feel once the baby is here i will be doing EVERYTHING again

Girl welcome to the club!!! I am married, and I think my husband just got so use to me doing it all!! because I clean, because his cleaning isnt really cleaning, and I do the cooking. Now that I am pregnant, I am always so tired, it takes all my enegry!! I ask him to cook , he goes out and buys dinner..MEN!!! Go on strike that will fix his lazy A$$$$$$$....

Quoting LiLMuffins Mommy:“ Girl welcome to the club!!! I am married, and I think my husband just got so use to me doing it all!! ... [snip!] ... takes all my enegry!! I ask him to cook , he goes out and buys dinner..MEN!!! Go on strike that will fix his lazy A$$$$$$$....”

i dont think he gets the whole pregnacy thing at all but what man does??/its just common sense thing though that hello the woman is pregnant maybe i should get off my ass and do something...going on strike though is only going to make things worse he is a lazy mofo lol

I went on strike, i did my own laundry, when i ate when he was home i'd eat like cereal or a pack of ramen, something that was just a serving for one person. He caught on and cleaned up his act.

Quoting Stephanie & kyle:“ ha i hope that could work ppl just keep telling me to wait till the baby is born things will change haha that so far away fomr now there is only so much onme can handle”

Things will not change after the baby is born.. sorry.. lol.. but yeah go on strike.. he needs a little tough love..  

I went on strike and the whole family felt it... only clean after yourself, do your own laundry, and yeah eat a bowl of cereal... it works!! I always tell him that I will just go on strike when he doesn't help me with things! They get the picture!

Chris is the exact same!!! He's started to get a little bit better though, he actually helped me preapre dinner the other night lol. But yeah, he has come to realise that if the jobs I ask him to do dont get done, then I don't put in the effort to cook a nice meal for him. I just told him that if he didn't get the jobs done in the week I specified (these are big jobs like sorting out the garage etc....been asking him since FEBRUARY) then he doesn't get sunday lunch =D or breakfast in bed on his day off =D. If he cant be bothered to get off his games to do something important for me why should I get off my ass to cook for him? He can look after his damn self lol. the only problem is alot of the time he gets his mum to do it because he still lives with her, but hes learning that when i say i wont do something, I'll stick to it, unless he does what i want haha!

Unfortunately that doesn't work when it comes to sex lol!