So i messed up!

i been knowing Ja'keith's dad since we where nine years old we've been best friend since then I moved away came back and we pick up as friends we didn't start dating until our senior year in high school got pregnant shortly after.Long story short he cheated I found out he wasn't fully there during me being pregnant and after I had him he wanted a dna test before he did anything for him.So we been back and forth since all of that , I finally got over him by getting a new boyfriend I'm happy with we've been together a year on the 23rd .Yet he has another baby mama they have three girls together the last was born in dec I didn't even know the gril was pregnant until I happen to see at his moms long story okay I got pregnant around the time she had the last baby my problem lays with me sleeping with jeremy somewhere around that that time I'm think after christmas because he asked me if I was pregnant first I thought nothing of it because I was on b/c then shortly after my boyfriend started to ask the same thing . I believe the baby is for my boyfriend because we lived together and went at it none stop . I got off track somewhere I messed up because I'm letting jeremy which is Ja'keith dad get to close to me today he gave me oral sex and I didn't stop him it would have went further but our son woke up. what should I do should I tell my boyfriend or just back away from jeremy all together.

Take a step back and try to put yourself in your current boyfriends shoes. How would you feel?

WOW!!!!   

Quoting ja'keith's mommy!!:“ i been knowing Ja'keith's dad since we where nine years old we've been best friend since then I moved ... [snip!] ... have went further but our son woke up. what should I do should I tell my boyfriend or just back away from jeremy all together.”

How much Trust is in the relationship? How bad do u think ur current bf loves you?

step back from your child's father. After the baby is born have your child's father take a DNA test and if its his tell your Bf the truth if its not, then its your decision if u want to tell him or not.

we talk all the time just like the other night we a talkk and he told that he slept with his babymama thinking it would stop her from putting childsupport on him I think I was wrong because I hadn' t done it in so long . I thinking when I see him tonight I'mgoing to tell him but I hosetly thinkthe baby's my boyfriend's becasue he's sick and moody all the time. I can't keep this thing with jeremy going on whenI know I don't want him back in that way I want there for ja'keith.

Quoting ja'keith's mommy!!:“ we talk all the time just like the other night we a talkk and he told that he slept with his babymama ... [snip!] ... the time. I can't keep this thing with jeremy going on whenI know I don't want him back in that way I want there for ja'keith.”

If hes having symtoms, then girls thats not ur other baby daddys kid. Stay away from your baby daddy. Tell him thst ur happy and u dont want to screw up ur relationship. Push comes to shove and ur bf is really the father then he wont want nothing from u. Hush it until the babys born.

I'm still thinking I'm tell ing phoenix about the oral sex jeremy gave me he really can't get to upset because I chilled out when he told me about chi chi and him screwing her to stay off c/s . Jeremy know I'm happy with my bf he just has ways of touching me theat makes my melt I just have to send lil j with him and not drophim off again thats how he got me come in for a min your hubby ain't gone get mad if you come in and talk to your babydaddy. damn you fronting on me like we never just friends before.

But yeah phoenix get's sick and has terrible mood swing i'm lucky most time there not toward's me lol .I'll let you ladies know what happen's when he bring the girls for me to watch to night.