What Should I Do?
What Should I Do?
23 postsposted 7th Jul
Me and my kids father have been together on and off for the longest time. Since we been 12 yrs. old. Anyways, we're expecting our 3rd baby and I'm so excited. It's just now we're engaged for the 2nd time. We plan to get married January 15th and I'm scared. I'm scared he's gonna fall back into his old habits of cheating. It's just that I love him so much. We have 2 kids together. They're my whole life and I love them so much. I want us to be a family but the thought of me getting hurt again and him tearing our family apart like he did after our son was born scares the life out of me. Maybe I'm scared because I'm still pretty young. I don't know. Should we wait to get married? We want at least another one after this one. What should I do?
quoteI'm due January 1st (a boy), have 2 kids & live in Michigan
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2877 postsposted 7th Jul
wow - 3 kids at 20!!
I would say that if you have any doubts at all - hold off!
quoteI would say that if you have any doubts at all - hold off!
I have 1 child & live in Ohio
115 postsposted 7th Jul
i think you should marry my brother! lol! you guys seem so happy together and you guys have been together for the longest. Pleese marry him b4 sum other chick does!! I would hate to c him get with somebody lke Macy. that hurt him so bad when that baby turned out not to be his
quoteI have 2 angel babies & live in Grand Rapids, Michigan
2888 postsposted 7th Jul
I would hold off, if you having doubts. Especially since he's a cheater.
quoteI have 1 child & live in Denham Springs, Louisiana
posted 7th Jul
Quoting Life Has Its Ups & Downs:“ i think you should marry my brother! lol! you guys seem so happy together and you guys have been together ... [snip!] ... chick does!! I would hate to c him get with somebody lke Macy. that hurt him so bad when that baby turned out not to be his”u know i love him but i honestly did not feel sorry for him when all of that went down. he cant expect to cheat on me and not get any of it back
I'm due January 1st (a boy), have 2 kids & live in Michigan
posted 7th Jul
Quoting Mommy2Aly:“ wow - 3 kids at 20!! I would say that if you have any doubts at all - hold off!”i know i started pretty young. i had my daughter at 14 and turned 15 a month later. and then i had my son at 18 and then i turned 19 a couple weeks later. this is actually my 1st planned child
I'm due January 1st (a boy), have 2 kids & live in Michigan
posted 7th Jul
Quoting MandyLoo:“ I would hold off, if you having doubts. Especially since he's a cheater.”that's what i was thinking. my mother told me if he cheated before he'll cheat again
I'm due January 1st (a boy), have 2 kids & live in Michigan
posted 7th Jul
Quoting Young Cubanita Mami:“ that's what i was thinking. my mother told me if he cheated before he'll cheat again”
yepp that's how i feel, if he was willing to risk losing you like that, then there is obviously something missing in the relationship, and getting married wont solve it. If you really love someone, you couldn't cheat on them. end of story.
I have 1 child & live in Denham Springs, Louisiana
3511 postsposted 7th Jul
sounds like you both have some fidelity issues. I would hold off until you both decide what you really want...so one of the kids isn't his?
quoteI have 1 child & live in Indiana
posted 7th Jul
Quoting meg902:“ sounds like you both have some fidelity issues. I would hold off until you both decide what you really want...so one of the kids isn't his?”both kids are his. we've been together just that long
I'm due January 1st (a boy), have 2 kids & live in Michigan
posted 7th Jul
Quoting Life Has Its Ups & Downs:“ i think you should marry my brother! lol! you guys seem so happy together and you guys have been together ... [snip!] ... chick does!! I would hate to c him get with somebody lke Macy. that hurt him so bad when that baby turned out not to be his”
I was just going by that comment.
I have 1 child & live in Indiana
posted 7th Jul
Quoting Young Cubanita Mami:“ i know i started pretty young. i had my daughter at 14 and turned 15 a month later. and then i had my son at 18 and then i turned 19 a couple weeks later. this is actually my 1st planned child”Good luck momma! Even if you decide to marry him - it will always be in the back of your head. I would personally wait it out a bit - not only for you, but for your kids sake!
I have 1 child & live in Ohio
posted 7th Jul
Quoting MandyLoo:“ yepp that's how i feel, if he was willing to risk losing you like that, then there is obviously something ... [snip!] ... in the relationship, and getting married wont solve it. If you really love someone, you couldn't cheat on them. end of story.”i cant help but to love him. we've been through alot and we've had so many twists and turns in our relationship
I'm due January 1st (a boy), have 2 kids & live in Michigan
posted 7th Jul
Quoting Young Cubanita Mami:“ i cant help but to love him. we've been through alot and we've had so many twists and turns in our relationship”
But twists and turns do not mean a good marriage will come...just wait. You are so young still and it seems like you have some trust issues.
I have 1 child & live in Indiana
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