SHOULD I REALLY ALLOW HER 2 CALL MY HOUSE?

my babys father still lives wit me until the end of this month.We havnt really been in a relationship since i was 19 years old.I have always taken care of him and always made sure he was ok.When hes in trouble im always ther 2 get him out of it.Well this lil girl he was datin cheated on him wit his bestfriend and jus crushed him.He ended up havin no where 2 go and no one 2 turn 2.So of course me bein the person I am brought him 2 me.We were great friends until about less than a month ago when he started talkin 2 that b***h.At first when i told him i was havin the baby he was xcited.then wen he told her and she got upset he changed his mind.now she calls everyday.if we were in a relationship i wouldnt deal wit it.but i feel like since we never were i cant say nuttin.sometimes she calls 3 times a day.i never thouht it would bother me but it really does.I know alot of it is pregnancy but still.Sometimes I wanna ask her if she knows how I got pregnant?Why the F**k do u keep callin and stressin me out.Anyways guess this was my way of venting.




Plus he has a cellphone now so i think she just calls here 2 piss me off

stupidbitches. if ur paying for the fone bill tell him not to let her call

Are you with the father? if not I guess she has a right to call. 

Quoting BellaJewel [ 16 wkz! ]:“ stupidbitches. if ur paying for the fone bill tell him not to let her call”

Thats what i say but on the other hand I try not 2 let him get a big head like he has 2 bitches fightin ova him.u know how guys are

If he lives with you and pays bills. He has every right to recieve phone calls. If he pays no bills, then you can say no.

Quoting babyboo.:“ Are you with the father? if not I guess she has a right to call. ”

No but i pay all the bills xcept 4 200 dollars of the rent.I also gave him a car and paid 500 dollars 4 him 2 live in an apt that he stayed only a month in cause he didnt want 2 live alone.Ive been with this man off and on and before my parents passed they always told me we would be 2gether and have a baby.If it wasnt for her messin wit his mind he would be here for his baby instead of runnin away 2 anothe r state just 2 get cheated on by her again.

Quoting Gabby311:“ If he lives with you and pays bills. He has every right to recieve phone calls. If he pays no bills, then you can say no.”

He only pays 200 dollars the rent is 1,100 a month plus the internet,phone,satelite tv,heat,electric and dont 4get water and trash.

Why even have him there? I know it sounds like you have a soft heart, but don't let people use you. He sounds like he is a jerk, and he knows he always has you to fall back on. Don't let him.

whatever, she needs to quit calling. Obviously you still care for him and he needs to figure out how to keep that shit seperate. That would bug me. Sounds to me like hes taking advantage. Its so hard being a single mama. The whole dating scene. Finding a blance. Its easy to care about the father of your child, even if you know hes not in your best interest. Im a softy like that too.

Quoting Tempted Like Eve:“ whatever, she needs to quit calling. Obviously you still care for him and he needs to figure out how ... [snip!] ... Its easy to care about the father of your child, even if you know hes not in your best interest. Im a softy like that too.”

ur rite we r alot alike lol

lol we so are 

Its hard, but you cant put up w his bs. Us single mamas are some of the toughest cookies I know. We have to be.

yea he leaves the end of this month i think it will be so much easier on me.hes so mentally abusive all the sudden after 10 years of a loving friendship.hes not even the same person ive known so long.

Quoting SINGLE MOM AGAIN:“ yea he leaves the end of this month i think it will be so much easier on me.hes so mentally abusive all the sudden after 10 years of a loving friendship.hes not even the same person ive known so long.”

By the sound of things,you're much better off of with out him! I know it's hard I went thru the same shit but my daughters daddy just had his 5th child two days ago.  males piss me off.

No matter what bills hes paying id kick his ass for even letting her call in the 1st place.
Next time she phones tell her 2 try his cell and stop calling ur house! He should have more respect 4 u then to parade her around u