advice please!

i need some advice . im in a 2 year relationship .
17 & engaged . he's 16 . were expecting our first child december 18th .
but i am not happy in this relationship at all . i haven't been
for awhile. he is so disrespectful & rude to me . i may be a bitch
to him . but not always, im in what some call a
"abusive relationship " he does hit . but not withthe intention
of doing it . he said it is because he was hit when he was younger .
i am 16 week's pregnant & he has already punched me in the
stomach once . i can't stand it anymore. i have alot of
love for him though . i couldn't imagine seeing him with another
girl , maybe we just need some time apart . i dk !

im so confused  
help ?!

That's abuse regardless how you try to justify it.

Speaking from personal experience GET OUT NOW. if he's not scared to hit you while baby is inside you what will stop him from hurting baby when it comes out. I know that is not the answer you want to hear, I didnt either. But you have to do what is BEST for you and baby...

Quoting Jennybby:“ i need some advice . im in a 2 year relationship . 17 & engaged . he's 16 . were expecting our ... [snip!] ... . i couldn't imagine seeing him with another girl , maybe we just need some time apart . i dk ! im so confused   help ?!”

What? If he's hitting you, you need to leave his ass ASAP, don't be stupid, get the hell out of that relationship.

Uhm, yeah get away.
if you're not happy with the relationship why try to stay in it? Do you want him to hit your child, too?

leave...NOW....if you have any respect for yourself and your unborn child you will leave his sorry ass. You'll get over him, promise.

Just leave. I was "in love" at 17. It's not love and you'll understand later. Just buy a self help book like "Single and Loving it" You will be fine, it just takes time.

u need to get OUT of that relationship and fast.
thats NOT healthy and NOT something u want to being a baby into..
if he hits u he WILL hit that child!

There is NO exception for ANY abuse....My sister won't leave her boyfriend because he can be nice sometimes...but he does it over and over....you don't need to put up with that crap hun...just leave him!!!It will be better for you AND the baby!! Good luck!!

The abuse is only going to get worse over time, you need to look after yourself and your unborn child and leave him. You don't want your child to grow up in a household where they will see their mother being hit by their father - that is going to mess up the kid.

You need to LEAVE HIM. He HIT YOU while you were pregnant. That should be clue number one. Keep him away from you. It's not okay for him to hit you and it's definitely not going to be okay for him to hit your child. You need to leave him now instead of subjecting your child to abuse for the rest of his/her life.

Quoting Jennybby:“ i need some advice . im in a 2 year relationship . 17 & engaged . he's 16 . were expecting our ... [snip!] ... . i couldn't imagine seeing him with another girl , maybe we just need some time apart . i dk ! im so confused   help ?!”

sweetie kick his ass to the curb. if he punched you once in the stomache he'll do it again. next time you may not be so lucky and he could kill your unborn baby that way. i know its tough but you're smarter than this. you need to do what is safe for you and your baby. it's common for abusive men to get it from childhood but its not an excuse. i was in an abusive relationship when i was 17 too and became pregnant. the stress and everything made me lose my baby. don't let the same happen to you. you can PM me and talk since i know how it is. good luck

Quoting Jennybby:“ i need some advice . im in a 2 year relationship . 17 & engaged . he's 16 . were expecting our ... [snip!] ... . i couldn't imagine seeing him with another girl , maybe we just need some time apart . i dk ! im so confused   help ?!”

there's no excuse for violence... and especially not against a pregnant woman.

get out.

now.

How is he hitting you without the intention of doing it? If hes hitting you then its intentional... For the safety of your baby especially you need to leave him right away.

well you might love him , but he don't love you .

you should have known that as soon as he laid a hand on you .

leave him .