very hurt right now...VENT (kinda long)

My boyfriend and I have a 7 month old baby girl.My boyfriend had denied cheating on me wit these 2 whores for the entire month. I knew in my heart he did SOMETHING with at least one but tried to work things out with him, even though one girl told me they kissed (he admitted to lying about work to go to this girls house, but claims nothing happened) and the other girl Barbarasaid all her and him did was give eachother backrubs(he admitted to this but said nothing else happened).. in the dark... alone. <-- this I dont believe from either of them.Barbara has had it out for me since 8th grade!!

Well, I guess I could not get over it, because I was sitting at home proud of him for working so hard and I felt sooooo stupid... so I just kept bringing it up. I REALLY wanted him to admit the truth. So he says "I put that on Ariannas life I did NOT cheat on you wit those girls!" And about 20 minutes later of arguing he says all he did was kiss the girl he worked wit... but that doesnt count as cheating.

I am so hurt, I have been putting in overtime, taking care of the baby ALL THE TIME, and he has been sneaking out to the club (which he apologized for) and seeing other girls!

I really hate him. And I feel very betrayed.


Our lil family is destroyed.

edited to say Im sorry if this is alittle hard to understand.. im a little frazzled right now.

I'm sorry, that sounds awful.

I'm sorry too. Let him have it! I'm mad at my hubby right now so I'm going to go yell at him some more.

You have a beautiful baby girl...

I know that doesn't give you any advice... And things are still really awful for you...
But you've got her... and you'll have her for the reessssst of your life    

Quoting Caiden's Mommy  ):“ I'm sorry too. Let him have it! I'm mad at my hubby right now so I'm going to go yell at him some more.”

lol Why? Hopefully not for the same reason as mine right?

Quoting flesh.mechanic:“ You have a beautiful baby girl... I know that doesn't give you any advice... And things are still ... [snip!] ... And things are still really awful for you... But you've got her... and you'll have her for the reessssst of your life    ”

Thanks, that helps alot. Honestly if it wasnt for her I think I would have killed someone by now... well maybe not kill but def. beat some ass... ARianna has made me alot nicer.

You know..everything that comes out of his mouth is plain STUPID. Simple as that.
He is lying. I am very sure of it. He is sugar-coating his lies by saying ONLY this and that happened. That means he is cheating and has cheated on you with those two hussies.
Do not let him get the best of 3 worlds by letting him be with you and 2 more women. You deserve much better than that dick. I cannot stand men who lie big time and expect women to understand their BSs.
EVEN if he says he has not done this and that, why would he with them in the first place?? The main thing is intent. If you have no intention then you should not even be with the person.
He needs to grow up and own up to his responsibilities. If I were you and if I have a place to stay, I will leave his ass and let it hang out to dry. Then he can think twice of his priorities. He may change, he may not. But right now, you have got a cheater.

Once a lier always a lier. That's all I have to say. If you can't trust someone you shouldn't be with them. I know that's hard.... I've been there many times. Keep your head up mama!

Quoting Mummy Olivia:“ You know..everything that comes out of his mouth is plain STUPID. Simple as that. He is lying. I am ... [snip!] ... hang out to dry. Then he can think twice of his priorities. He may change, he may not. But right now, you have got a cheater.”

EXACTLY!! I tried to explain to him that even if NOTHING happened he still lied to me to go see them, which is just as bad. And your right intention is a big part of it. Plus you phrased it very well, he did "sugar coat" it. I know he thinks by giving me lil half truths it will satisfy this need-to-know thing I have.. but it doesnt.

Thanks for the help... you could not have wrote it any better.

Quoting Ariannas My AngeL:“ EXACTLY!! I tried to explain to him that even if NOTHING happened he still lied to me to go see them, ... [snip!] ... will satisfy this need-to-know thing I have.. but it doesnt. Thanks for the help... you could not have wrote it any better.”

You are welcome..sorry that this is happening though..I know it happens a lot but I cannot imagine myself going through with it because it will eat at me big time. SIGH. Hope all works for the better for you and your pretty lil one.

Quoting Ariannas My AngeL:“ My boyfriend and I have a 7 month old baby girl.My boyfriend had denied cheating on me wit these 2 whores ... [snip!] ... Our lil family is destroyed. edited to say Im sorry if this is alittle hard to understand.. im a little frazzled right now.”

I know exactly what your going threw my boyfriend constently calls his ex that he cheated on me with and goes behind my back and goes to her house and trys to get with her he even slept with her and lied to me about it all it slowly comes out i feel so betrayed all the time

Quoting M0MMy 2 B3!!!:“ I know exactly what your going threw my boyfriend constently calls his ex that he cheated on me with ... [snip!] ... and trys to get with her he even slept with her and lied to me about it all it slowly comes out i feel so betrayed all the time”

do you go over it alot in your head.. like wishing you had caught him in the moment??!! I do.. its horrible but I just cant help it.

Dont worry guys like your bf and mine dont deserve ladies like us.

Quoting Ariannas My AngeL:“ do you go over it alot in your head.. like wishing you had caught him in the moment??!! I do.. its ... [snip!] ... moment??!! I do.. its horrible but I just cant help it. Dont worry guys like your bf and mine dont deserve ladies like us.”

yea i constantly think about it its like theres no escaping it i also think about was she better then me whats wrong with me stuff like that