re: It's done and I want to kill him

Quoting Shaunna's Mom:“ Just be there for your kids and let them know that it was not their fault what happened. I have read ... [snip!] ... articles that many kids feel when their parents separate that they feel they had done something, was not good enough, or bad.”

I already explained to her, and plan to continue to tell her, that none of this is her fault in any way. There's nothing she did wrong to make this happen.

Quoting Shaunna's Mom:“ Just be there for your kids and let them know that it was not their fault what happened. I have read ... [snip!] ... articles that many kids feel when their parents separate that they feel they had done something, was not good enough, or bad.”

u know what, my daughter's father said to me the other day that our daughter felt it was her fault that we aren't together. i felt so bad. i'm like what did we do to make her feel that way.

That's fucked up. And that woman he is going to live with is no better. How horrible.

Awww I am so sorry sweetie, everything will work out....we are here for you and I hate when ppl do stuff that hurts my sons feeling I woudl rather them physically punch me so I know how awul that feels (except not to the extent that you are suffering) we are here for you....it will work out sweetie! good luck

Thank you ladies for all your support, thoughts, insights and commiseration in all this. It really means alot to me right now to at least know there are some people in my corner. 

Quoting rabidmommy:“ Well, my hubby left today. And it broke my heart to hear my daughter cry when he told her he was leaving. ... [snip!] ... he's leaving this unborn child too. I'm just so angry I can't see straight. I just want to hurt him so bad for my kids' sake.”

What a fucking jerk. Sorry bout my language. But guys are assholes. I mean all they do is think about themselves. I really dont understand em. And for him to do that to you , your kid...and your unborn..........he needs to be burned.

Quoting PREGO#3!!(My third baby..:“ What a fucking jerk. Sorry bout my language. But guys are assholes. I mean all they do is think about ... [snip!] ... I really dont understand em. And for him to do that to you , your kid...and your unborn..........he needs to be burned.”

I think Cheating should be illegal and punishable offense.

Quoting AutieMomma05:“ I think Cheating should be illegal and punishable offense.”

Actually adultery in the state of Georgia is a misdemeanor. I have yet to see anyone charged with it yet. That's ok. He'll be punished enough in the divorce settlement. And I'm sure the karma train will run his ass over. I don't see her letting him stick around long if she has to put up with the kind of crap I've had to put up with over the years. They say you never really know a person til you have to live with them. All I know is she's got a big suprise headed her way.

He sounds like a piece of shit. You are better off without him and so are your babies. You'll find someone better sooner or later. Just hang in there and be strong!

Im so sorry to hear this. I know itll be hard but be strong. Itll get better.