single again need help

me and chuck(michaels father) broke upthe other day....for good reasons...it just wasnt there anymore, and we fought all the time!!!!i didnt wont michael growing up around that.....but theres another guy in the mix..we dated awhile back....and thats also part of why we broke up, i stil love love love him, more than ever! problem is. he's a marine.....and yea i dont know what to do...any advice?

what advice are you looking for?

You are the only one who will live your life.
YOU have a child to think about.
Your decisions will affect him.

What are you asking? Are you wanting to know if you should bring this other guy into your (and your childs) life?

no. just should i be worrying bouy another man right now

no worry about your baby

I agree don't just jump into another relationship. Get to know him first but he doesn't need to be around your son all the time. Your son still needs his father.

I say if YOU want to be involved with this guy then get to know him, hang out with him etc. Don't jump into it too fast. And I personally wouldn't bring him around your child just yet. Because you never know what could happen. Good luck hun.

oh ive known him for 2 years straight.he's like my best friend

Quoting Beth [due 12-25-08]:“ I say if YOU want to be involved with this guy then get to know him, hang out with him etc. Don't jump ... [snip!] ... fast. And I personally wouldn't bring him around your child just yet. Because you never know what could happen. Good luck hun.”

thanks..thats what i might do...well sorta.lol! like i said to the other girl we've known eachother for 2 years, and have dated in the past..

I feel if your friends then make more of the relationship. Still take it slow. Don't rush into it because you think your ex will do the same and find another female.

o yea im not one torush things...i cant really anyway...h'es in west vrginia....we dated in high school. but like he's inthe marines, so we want see eachother too much, so thats a plus