thinking about doing this alone.....

i just dont know what to do anymore....my bf is a piece of shit!! all he does is bitch and complain, constantly calls me mean things bc he thinks its funny..always being stupid, cant do anything for himself...barely has anything to do with our son!!!

for example i always get up at night with the baby, no matter what...it doesnt matter if its a weekend and he doesnt have to work or anything, getting up with christopher is just out of the question....this morning christopher got up a little after 7 and i put him in bed with me bc he was only really only half awake and would sleep another hour he just likes to cuddle and my bf just freaked out and started cursing....so i got up...he wont feed the baby, wont change him...nothing he might talk to him for 20 minutes through out the whole day...he wont even play with him while i make dinner for his lazy ass...

we're not really even talking right now.havent been for about a week since i told him i have to go for a week this month 5 hours away for training...
i'm so lost..i really dont want to leave, but hes making me really depressed...i dont want my baby to be without his daddy....he wont listen to me when i talk i cant make him understand how i feel....

from what you've said it sounds like he doesnt really have a daddy right now. You guys both made him you should both take responsibilty for him. I would tell him that you are thinking of leaving bc of how he is acting and if he changes great if he doesnt I would leave. You can do it alone you dont need a man like that

I'm thinking spend some time away? He sounds like a stubborn case. I'm not saying LEAVE HIM, HE'S NO GOOD! YOU TWO ARE BETTER OFF!!

I say try spending a couple days.. maybe a week, depends on what you think, away from him. I mean, its better to do things yourself instead of having that tease that someone COULD help you out.

Hopefully things would turn around, but if not, then... maybe its better that way? It's up to him if he wants to be a daddy or not.. =/

He doesnt seem to be helping you at all, or involved with his little one. You need to find somewhere better to go, and get child support! It would be more help then he is now.

Just curious, when you're away who's Christopher staying with is Dad's inactive, or will this be his moment to shine? Maybe as far as your relationship goes you should ask him if he wants to try and make this work and suggest counselling.

Quoting nuriah:“ Just curious, when you're away who's Christopher staying with is Dad's inactive, or will this be his ... [snip!] ... shine? Maybe as far as your relationship goes you should ask him if he wants to try and make this work and suggest counselling.”

christophers going with me...i cant even leave for an hour at the grocery store w/o getting helled at or him calling 45587695764 times

Quoting Dani & Christopher:“ christophers going with me...i cant even leave for an hour at the grocery store w/o getting helled at or him calling 45587695764 times”

Wow!! Thats horrible. Do you have some place you can go?? Cause you really don't need him!!