35 Weeks! & scared outta my mind

so im thirty five weeks today and i started thinking about all the stuff that could happen like what if my babys umbilical cord gets wrapped around its neck and it doesnt survive or what if something happens to me what if i go early and all this stuffs and more is going threw my head i feel so lost and idk what to do im scared outta my mind and its makes it harder cause im alone. =[

My second boys cord was around his neck 2 times or maybe 3 I don't know forsure they never really said I just know they said stop pushing we have to take the cord off his neck and the boyfriend said he knows it was two times forsure. Anyways his heartrate never went down and if it would have they will do an emergency C-Section if needed. Also I did the same thing as you and think of it this way. Its way to late to change anything so go with the flow. Things are going to happen and you can't control any of them. So why worry about something you can't change. Plus 90% of the time we all worry and it was for nothing anyways. So good luck and worry more about sleeping now so you care caught up for all your going to be loosing with a new baby in the house!

Quoting ♥Kaytee♥:“ so im thirty five weeks today and i started thinking about all the stuff that could happen like what ... [snip!] ... is going threw my head i feel so lost and idk what to do im scared outta my mind and its makes it harder cause im alone. =[”

My sons was also wrapped twice and he was just fine  
It is completely normal to get into a "panic" mode about this time. Just try your best to relax and think positive.
Blessings~
Steph

I turned 35 weeks yesterday and it really made me think about a lot too, i keep thinking about if i'm ready or do i know exactly what to do when it happens or even after my baby boy is born how will i feel and will i be a good mommy, a million things/feelings rushing through me...its all nerves momma and ur not the only one feeling this way, i can't tell you i know how you feel being a single momma b/ you've gotten this far....YoU CaN Do It!  

Don't worry everything will turn out fine. Unless you have toxima or something i wouldnt worry to much labor is scary but alot of survived it mother and child

Quoting JaYs MaMi_08:“ I turned 35 weeks yesterday and it really made me think about a lot too, i keep thinking about if i'm ... [snip!] ... one feeling this way, i can't tell you i know how you feel being a single momma b/ you've gotten this far....YoU CaN Do It!  ”

i thikn the same way too about the mommy thing idk its scary and im not sure im ready not that baby cares if im ready or not but its uss its hard not to think of that kinda stuff.

Quoting AidensMama101107:“ Don't worry everything will turn out fine. Unless you have toxima or something i wouldnt worry to much labor is scary but alot of survived it mother and child”

whats toxima?

Quoting ♥Kaytee♥:“ whats toxima?”

high blood pressure causes lots of swelling there is another name for it but i dont remember it right now the pregnancy brain never left me lol its normal but can be dangerous

Quoting ♥Kaytee♥:“ i thikn the same way too about the mommy thing idk its scary and im not sure im ready not that baby cares if im ready or not but its uss its hard not to think of that kinda stuff.”

Don't worry it'll come naturally. i hope? lol no but really, don't stress it so much (easier said than done, i know!) believe in yourself =0) when your angel comes, you won't even remember why you were so worried, talk to your friends and family too, they can help, well my mom is all about the blah blah blah women have been doing it for yeears it's not that big of a deal, lol she's old school, but it does kinda make me feel better lol

Quoting AidensMama101107:“ high blood pressure causes lots of swelling there is another name for it but i dont remember it right now the pregnancy brain never left me lol its normal but can be dangerous”

ooooh snaps i hope i dont hav ethat.

Quoting ♥Kaytee♥:“ ooooh snaps i hope i dont hav ethat.”

you would know by now. Dont worry everything is going to turn out fine! You wil have a beautiful healthy baby.

No need to worry you will more than likely find out after the baby is born that everything goes as planned. I have always been blessed to have good nurses that are really supportive and helpful. There are exceptions but you will be ok.  

Quoting Lovelyone:“ No need to worry you will more than likely find out after the baby is born that everything goes as planned. ... [snip!] ... have always been blessed to have good nurses that are really supportive and helpful. There are exceptions but you will be ok. ”

i hope so i hate feeling this way its like idk what to do ha ha