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this is in the right spot. My friend has a miscarry last night and i feel so bad she 29 weeks along. she and her bf had taken pics of their angel baby and she was telling me how beatiful he was and how little and she said she cant wait 4 me to see him. i have never seen pics of what this will look like and i dont mean to affend anyone at all - but i dont wanna say look or anything the wrog way so can u "prep" me for what i will see tom.???

It will look like a baby..the skin color may be a little off but it's nothing to freak about. I m/c at 18 weeks and my baby was small but still looked like a normal sleeping baby.

I'm sorry I shouldve said "he will look like a normal baby" I didnt mean to call him "it"!!!

I think it's classed as a stillborn not a miscarry. Just smile and say "She's perfect" Nothing more should be needed except maybe a hug.

i know it will look like a baby - but i am kinda nervous of how little i cried just thinkin if it was me and my heart goesout to all angel mommies this just hits sooo close to home because we are BFFs since 5th grade and i feel horrible she was there for the birth of my daughter and i will be there in ne way possible for her

Sorry to hear that ur friend has gone through such a terrible ordeal! I think as mother who has suffered a loss it was very comforting to hear my close friends and relatives say how beautiful mylil girls are and how they looked like me and just the little things! As long as you remind her that she is still a momand just be there for her whenever she needs to talk orpour her heart out!

Quoting Brooke's mommy:“ i know it will look like a baby - but i am kinda nervous of how little i cried just thinkin if it was ... [snip!] ... since 5th grade and i feel horrible she was there for the birth of my daughter and i will be there in ne way possible for her”

I guess i misunderstood what you were asking....the pregnancy brain at its finest! Just be her best friend the way you always have. Its hard to feel pain the way someone else does. Im sure shes devastated and will be upset, if she cant wait for you to be there she's just needing your love and support and you not crying will prob be the last of her thoughts, she'll just be happy that you are there for her. I'm so sorry for her loss and hope everything goes ok tomorrow...

i wanna be strong for her and not cry but this is just a sad sad thing and no mommy should ever go through this but i know i am going to end up in tears as i lay here and look at my lil girl and thank god she was healthy and here is my friend who did everthing right and so far along lost her little man. its so hard i was just on the phone with her wed. night and she was telling me tigger ( his nick name ) was bouncing all over . her DR doesnt knw y this happ.

Quoting Brooke's mommy:“ i wanna be strong for her and not cry but this is just a sad sad thing and no mommy should ever go through ... [snip!] ... with her wed. night and she was telling me tigger ( his nick name ) was bouncing all over . her DR doesnt knw y this happ.”

don't try to be stong for her. if you need to cry then cry, it shows her that you care and it gives her permission to cry with you. you can tell her the baby is beautiful and you are so sorry that she isn't here still.