re: please help....

Quoting i love andrew:“ oh i know. i just meant for advice and stuff. i want to be able to call my mom when i cant get the baby ... [snip!] ... crying to see what i can do and all that... i dont expect or want my mom to raise the baby for me... i just need the support.”

i hope they sipport you becuase yes you do need the support. its not going to be easy.

for sure... i know i cant do it alone. i'm not sure how my boyfriends parents would react either. his mom said she would be excited but at the same time, she might change her mind once it actually happens... all i want is the best care for my baby. whether that be in my home or not.....

Quoting i love andrew:“ for sure... i know i cant do it alone. i'm not sure how my boyfriends parents would react either. his ... [snip!] ... change her mind once it actually happens... all i want is the best care for my baby. whether that be in my home or not.....”

i think your very mature to consider everything for your baby and consider giving it a better home if you cannott!
very good  

thanks... i try. and at first i said i would do whatever it took to keep it.. but i couldnt bear to have for example, a christmas where i cant get my child presents.. or go through a birthday where we can't really celebrate how he/she would want to because i cant provide that kind of stuff for my baby.... i know it'll be hard to give it up, but open adoption is definitely an option i'm considering.