re: I dunno, should i be mad?

Quoting AMT:“ You have every right to be!! I personally wouldn't believe the blackmail excuse.... I'd ask him again to talk to you about it”

I think I will, I'm not very happy with him right now.

Quoting *Kels Kels*:“ LMAO  ”

lol well i would ha ha.. but thats just me!

Quoting *Kels Kels*:“ I think I will, I'm not very happy with him right now.”

Theres no sense in getting into a huge blown out arguement over it---- Just tell him the truth about how your hurt & hopefully he'll do the same back to you!!

I just recently went through the same thing. Only difference is that the girl only had a bra and shorts on. I was so pissed I didn't even tell him that I saw the picture I just copied the picture and saved it to my USB. I wrote the girl on myspace and told her everything and tried to get as much information out of her as I could and she told me everything. And that's when I confronted my boyfriend and of course he denied it all and then I opened his email and showed him everything that I saw!! I'm not saying take that same route but I was really upset about the whole thing and I just felt like taking matters into my own hands because I thought he would lie to me.

Ok he just needs to grow up, stop with the excuses, and if it is something that bothers you then out of respect he should get rid of the pictures. Honestly if my DH had pictures like that of anyone, an ex or not, it is disrespectful of me and our relationship if it bothers me and I ask him not to. Ask him if it would bother him if you had pictures of your ex naked and holding onto them for ANY reason. Hope this helps and good luck with this situation!

I would be pissed and I would delete them myself.

Quoting CrazyMama1:“ I would be pissed and I would delete them myself.”

lol thats what i said! great minds think alike!

Well i just talked to him and he said that they were memories of someone who cared about him. So I told him that I didn't like it and it was disrespectful of my feelings. I told him he could keep normal "clothed" pictures but I would appreciate if he deleted the naked ones. He agreed and apologized.

Quoting *Kels Kels*:“ Well i just talked to him and he said that they were memories of someone who cared about him. So I told ... [snip!] ... told him he could keep normal "clothed" pictures but I would appreciate if he deleted the naked ones. He agreed and apologized.”

good he apologized but still a bit weird he was keeping them for memories....

Quoting .CharlotteAmber.:“ good he apologized but still a bit weird he was keeping them for memories....”

yah i know...whatever he deleted them...lol